Lunar Wilderness Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I've had my girlfriend for a little under a year now, everything is great, We enjoy our company and it doesn't even feel like a year (In a good way), I love her and she loves me, The one problem I have is insecurity....Whenever the topic of her Ex comes up It makes me feel bad, I get sad/mad/ and I hate it. She says she doesn't like him at all, and I can tell she's being honest, she never talks to him or anything, and she tells me all the time it was a bad relationship and she doesn't know how she stood it for as long as she did, I hate how I get insecure about it though, I feel she may have been happier with him or just something, I'm not sure I just don't feel good enough, even though she tells me all the time I made everything so much better and etc. I know its stupid but it affects me, & I was wondering if anyone feels the same or maybe has some advice, helpful advice..
baguette Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Have some confidence man. You're better than her ex and you know it.
Frank13 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 From my experience, if you are feeling that way there is something wrong. Where there is smoke there is fire. The red flag is when you say "Whenever the topic of her Ex comes up". How often does this come up? If the topic of the ex comes up often, despite what she says (doesn't like him at all, it was a bad relationship, she doesn't know how she stood it for as long as she did), it means he is on her mind and she gets some sort of good feelings talking about him. What does she say about him that makes you feel that you "just don't feel good enough". Something isn't right.
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