silvermercy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) I speak my mind so if you don't like it ignore me then its that simple. While you attack my character as a poster? Hmmm... Nope! Edited February 14, 2012 by silvermercy
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 If it look like a duck, walks like a duck, and then quacks like a duck. Well its a duck. I'm a duck. Does that mean I have to be bitter?
Author joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Author Posted February 14, 2012 I was just frustrated as hell with the threads that had people that were supposedly against something but were really bashing men. After a certain point I just saw everyone against it as bashing men.
Oxy Moronovich Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Keep in mind many people here are either in unhappy relationships or in no relationships at all. That's going to mean many of the people here are dateless. But there are many bitter women on this forum. They also seem to get hysterical pretty quickly. 1
veggirl Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Keep in mind many people here are either in unhappy relationships or in no relationships at all. That's going to mean many of the people here are dateless. But there are many bitter women on this forum. They also seem to get hysterical pretty quickly. Oxy speaks the truth. The resentment is clear on both sides much of the time.
Shaun-Dro Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 They attack men and claim it to be questioning mentalities. They have these extreme stances and hypocritical attitudes. Thank God I caught myself before I became bitter. I have to admit that I was awfully close though. I'm still in the process of turning over new leaf, and I'm almost there. As for bitter women, I haven't really noticed that many. I just see various people expressing their opinions in different ways and perhaps you see it as personal attacks. 1
Author joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Author Posted February 14, 2012 Keep in mind many people here are either in unhappy relationships or in no relationships at all. That's going to mean many of the people here are dateless. But there are many bitter women on this forum. They also seem to get hysterical pretty quickly. I know but why when they get a dose of their own medicine they whine about being attacked. Hell I get attacks on here but I don't whine about it. I don't sneak and attack someone that disagrees with me. I don't say something then when confronted with deny it then when its posted say its taken out of context or whine about character being assassinated. They assassinate their own character. Being dateless is no excuse. Hell I was dateless for years and was not as crazy as they are
oldguy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Joysticked; Not to get too far off topic and this thread doesn't apply, so far, but overall; given so many comments I've read here to & about female posters that would be considered sexual harassment in the very least at any work place. I've been very surprised there isn't more of a problem here than there is.
Author joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Author Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) Joysticked; Not to get too far off topic and this thread doesn't apply, so far, but overall; given so many comments I've read here to & about female posters that would be considered sexual harassment in the very least at any work place. I've been very surprised there isn't more of a problem here than there is. I speak my mind just like they do. The difference like these other men I'm not being gentle with them. Why even be gentle with them? Edited February 14, 2012 by joystickd
Author joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Author Posted February 14, 2012 See the bitterness of these women
somedude81 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 IMO, not that many women are bitter because they can easily get what they want. They just don't have a lot to complain about.
silvermercy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) I know but why when they get a dose of their own medicine they whine about being attacked. Hell I get attacks on here but I don't whine about it. I don't sneak and attack someone that disagrees with me. I don't say something then when confronted with deny it then when its posted say its taken out of context or whine about character being assassinated. They assassinate their own character. Being dateless is no excuse. Hell I was dateless for years and was not as crazy as they are I hope that wasn't directed towards me again (I clarified things in the porn thread), as this would be your last chance before reporting you. Last chance. As for who's whining... didn't you just started a WHOLE THREAD just to WHINE about this topic? Edited February 14, 2012 by silvermercy
Anela Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 As for who's whining... didn't you just started a WHOLE THREAD just to WHINE about this topic? Good point. Today, I am bitter, and I make no apologies for it. None whatsoever. I have good reason to be feeling what I am feeling, and nobody gets to tell me otherwise. ESPECIALLY those men who are bitter themselves, and then don't listen when told that a woman can relate.
somedude81 Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Good point. Today, I am bitter, and I make no apologies for it. None whatsoever. I have good reason to be feeling what I am feeling, and nobody gets to tell me otherwise. ESPECIALLY those men who are bitter themselves, and then don't listen when told that a woman can relate. I'm bitterer than you are so you can't be bitter. Just because of your post I now declare rabbit season in full effect.
Negative Nancy Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I am not bitter, I am just telling it like it is.
Shaun-Dro Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I am not bitter, I am just telling it like it is. Being bitter is pointless so why go there? If anyone is feeling that way, I'd think some kind of therapy would do some good. I can't begin to explain to you guys just how relieved I feel after letting go some of my own burdens. I'm at a point where it's become a new beginning for me. I couldn't be any happier.
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 IMO, not that many women are bitter because they can easily get what they want. They just don't have a lot to complain about. You have no idea what women generally want or how easy or hard it is for us to get it. NegativeNancy: I am not bitter, I am just telling it like it is. Sorry! You have no idea how it is.
Woggle Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 I am not bitter, I am just telling it like it is. I think I am telling it like it is when I am in my moods as well but in reality I can't see the forest from the trees.
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 I think I am telling it like it is when I am in my moods as well. Yeah, and you're not right.
carhill Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 You forgot the last part of Wog's sentence where he stated: "but in reality I can't see the forest from the trees." He gets it.
somedude81 Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 You have no idea what women generally want or how easy or hard it is for us to get it. Women want the same thing most men do, a healthy relationship. And yes, it's a thousand times easier for a woman to achieve.
D-Lish Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 Women want the same thing most men do, a healthy relationship. And yes, it's a thousand times easier for a woman to achieve. I wish that were the case SD. Women experience the same problem and frustration as men when it comes to love. I'm attractive enough and there is nothing seriously wrong with me, but I haven't been able to find happiness with a man. I've experienced some bad situations with men that include cheating, lying, heartbreak, etc. Heck, my ex-H knocked up another woman while we were working on our marriage. If there is ever a situation that should create a bitter attitude, that situation should have done it. I have major trust issues, abandonment issues, but I refuse to be bitter. I don't necessarily believe love will find me one day, but I've never had the urge to create a post that all men are evil. I also don't believe that. These gender wars get really silly after 1 page.
Anela Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 I wish that were the case SD. Women experience the same problem and frustration as men when it comes to love. I'm attractive enough and there is nothing seriously wrong with me, but I haven't been able to find happiness with a man. I've experienced some bad situations with men that include cheating, lying, heartbreak, etc. Heck, my ex-H knocked up another woman while we were working on our marriage. If there is ever a situation that should create a bitter attitude, that situation should have done it. I have major trust issues, abandonment issues, but I refuse to be bitter. I don't necessarily believe love will find me one day, but I've never had the urge to create a post that all men are evil. I also don't believe that. These gender wars get really silly after 1 page. I don't think men are evil, either, and I didn't create a post to say so. I did have someone - the guy who hit on me when he was in a relationship - ignore my polite request to shut the hell up, when I didn't want to talk about something, and didn't want him creating drama around me. I wasn't about to sit here expressing bitterness, I was just expressing the fact that I won't let anyone dismiss my feelings. I'm actually sad, but I do retain bitterness over something, and don't think that anyone should tell me how I should be feeling. I wasn't bitter after almost being killed, I wasn't bitter when someone tried to set my hair on fire; I was stunned, but not bitter. I have been experiencing some sort of breakdown, though. That's why I removed myself from any sort of dating situation. Yay, me.
Anela Posted February 15, 2012 Posted February 15, 2012 I'm bitterer than you are so you can't be bitter. Just because of your post I now declare rabbit season in full effect. That actually made me laugh.
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