GregStan Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 (edited) Hey everyone, So I have a bit of a problem that I would love some opinions on. Ok recently I have met a wonderful young lady and since then we have hung out in a group situation quite a few times. At a couple of parties we have shared some special moments kissing and what not but I have been told she sees me more as a friend. Anyhow I do have quite strong feelings for her but I am quite happy to just be friends. Anyway the question I wanted to ask was should I get her a gift anonymously on Valentines day? The main reason I do want to get her something is to just remind her that she should feel good about herself and wanted especially on Valentines Day. I really just don't want her not receiving anything while some of her friends do. So do I get her flowers? Or anything at all? Quick replys would be much appreciated thanks. Edited February 13, 2012 by GregStan
Philosoraptor Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 Do you want a relationship with her? If so, do not send it anonymously. If you just want to cheer her up, send a note like "Just wanted to let you know that you're a great person". Nothing that leaves any hope as she might be waiting for someone to make a move on her and it could leave her disappointed.
Author GregStan Posted February 13, 2012 Author Posted February 13, 2012 Do you want a relationship with her? If so, do not send it anonymously. If you just want to cheer her up, send a note like "Just wanted to let you know that you're a great person". Nothing that leaves any hope as she might be waiting for someone to make a move on her and it could leave her disappointed. Initially yes I did want a relationship with her but she has told friends on a few occasions she doesn't feel the way I do about her. So it's more just wanting her to feel special I guess on a day where she may have to put up with others receiving gifts while she doesn't.
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