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Hello there,

This will be my first post on that forum and i am looking for some advices. 1 week ago my 3 month old gf break up with me saying that our personality are too different, there is no other guy or stuff like that involve. she says that am jealous and make up a mountain out of nothing. What happen is that since she is back from a 5 year absence due to studying abroad,some people want to meet up with her. where she is working, one of her ex was constantly offering to drop her at home and on few occasion propose her to hang out. we talked about it and i told her to deal with that herself as it was not really bothering me. the guy in question was married and she promptly put him in his place. there was also her guy friend with whom she has 5-6 hours of hang out time. nothing bad so far we talk about it and move over it.

the real problem came when we hit bad week, i was kinda annoy when i propose her to hang out she said that she may be not free on that day due to meeting a mutual friend.i was kinda annoy and make her know. she was kinda annoy and said that she is giving one last chance. then 2 days after i had to drop her at a colleague gathering, i was really tired that day. when i came to pick her back she was on the parking with her sister talking to a colleague in car. when she get in i told her what she was doing outside in the cold and her response was a bit dry and on the way back i didn't talk to her as i prefer not to say anything so that she can use against me. but once i got home i text her about it and she was kinda angry and told me that i blew my chance. on the following day we meet and we talk about it, it was a bit tense but we get on over it eventually.

all was well until sunday when i make a joke which she didn't take well. i excuse myself but the damage was done. on monday she didn't contact me at all. i text her and no response then in the evening i call at her place and her sister told me that she went out with colleagues. when i call her again later, i complain about why she didn't reply to my calls and text but had time to hang out. it was then that she drop the bomb and say that she can't continue like that.

i was shocked as really it was all a misunderstanding. then on the following day i text her telling her that i was sorry and all to which she replied on the following day that she don't think that this will change and she don't want that to happen again so better leave it off. last contact we had was on friday when we chat on fb for 1h30. i was kinda relieved as it seems that i can still be natural with her but when i ask her what are her plans for the weekend she replied and ask me mine,afterwards she says she is going to bed but remain online for a while.

I know its just stupid thing to break up,she really put lot of patience in this relationship and she kinda likes me. But i think that she don't want to put up with a guy if there is so much trouble at the start. she is 27 so i guess she is kinda scare to waste time in a relationship that won't work.

since it was just a misunderstanding, i want to know what you guys think about all this?

Thanks

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Ugh... flush. :sick:

 

You were rambling on and on about she said, I said, she said, I said... All I could pick up from your painful-to-read post was that she broke up with you and you think it's a misunderstanding. No wonder, because I don't understand anything. Sorry.

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Lol well sorry if it was hard to understand, i was just giving a clear picture of what happened. Yeah it was a misunderstanding that lead all to this. Since its the 1st down we got and it had a dramatic, i wonder if i still got a chance to make up..

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