Kristeen Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 I have been developing a friendship with a guy for a few months now and I think it's becoming more to both of us. I know it is for me. He touches me A LOT especially on the back of the shoulder frequently to say hi or brushes my hair on the back of my neck, ran his fingers through my hair and down my back, stares at me from across the room a lot, makes up cute nicknames for me, compliments me non stop, talks about me to other people (always in a good way), tells his friends how attractive he thinks I am, wants to know all my weekends plans, wants to know ALL about me. He even opened up about a big issue he is dealing with in his life that is something he doesn't tell anyone else about, when I walk into a room he finds me immediately and his eyes follow me the whole time. Here is the deal, recently when I run into him he ignores me all of the sudden. Acts like I am not there. I can tell by all my gut feeling and by his eyes that he's got feelings for me. This is driving me nuts because I just start second guessing myself. Is there a chance I am reading him wrong? I have been out of the dating game for so long maybe I am nuts? Help!! I am falling for him in a major way and don't want to fall any deeper if he is misleading me. What do you think?
mortensorchid Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 Have you considered that maybe he's leading you on? It sounds like to me. Suddenly he opens up about something, did you tell him something in return? I had encountered someone a long time ago for some Internet date. He and I got together for a drink or something, he was touching me quite a bit during the time we were together. Then we said our good byes, then I heard nothing from him. I sent a text a few days later and he texted back "Oh, didn't you get my text the other day? I was wondering what you thought of me." I realized this guy was just a player and dropped him. Sounds like this one is as well.
Author Kristeen Posted February 13, 2012 Author Posted February 13, 2012 I have actually know him for a long time but we have been getting closer for the last 6 months. If he was a player wouldn't he try to put the moves on and hit the road quickly? Not sure. He never pressures me to do anything physically but does hint around to the attraction. I know that he is going through some heavy stuff right now personally and I actually knew about it before he told me about it. I was waiting for him to divulge the details. Just not sure how to read this one???
serialgf Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 i agree. it sounds like he's probably started dating someone and now maybe he's uncomfortable/feeling awkward. he probably does/did like you though. if you really want to know, and you've been friends with him for so long, just ask him! that's what i would do. best of luck!
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