davyboy Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 Hi everyone,ive been with my fiancee for almost 4 years now,we both decided to end it for different reasons,mostly she ended it,i was willing to work on it and try and sort out the problem,whatever i do shes on my mind,shes the first woman that i fell for,and i gave her all the love and care that i could give anyone,the sadness is the most hardest part,we werent living together because of issues in the relationship,but we were working on that,and now it feels like my world has slipped away from me,any help would be appreiciated. Thanks David
Whisky1981 Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 I feel your pain. It is excruciating and it is unbearable. I have been in your situation 2 months ago and in addition I have been cheated on for the last 6 months of my 9 year relatonship. What you have to do now is to stay close to your friends and family. Tell them everything. Every last detail of your relationship and discuss it trough and trough as much as needed. Try to do that with friends and family that will be on your side. This will help. It will be really hard for a month but that is normal. After that it will get better you will see. And there is always a chance that you will get back together one day. For now you need to go into NC for at least 2 or 3 weeks. If she contacts you you will know that she still care. Go out there and do things that you enjoy. Go out and find new hobbies or enjoy the ones you were not enjoying when you were with her. Go and buy yourself some new clothes, join a gym and work out it really helps! Stay strong! At least try to! It is har and it hurts but I promise you it will get better soon!
Author davyboy Posted February 13, 2012 Author Posted February 13, 2012 Thanks,i got in touch with her last night,and i poured my heart out and basically pleaded and begged to let me back into her life,and right now i feel like a fool for doing so,i know i should let her go,but i also know shes the only one to take this pain i have away,all im doing is in tears constantly thinking of all the times we shared,from the first day we met,and all the great times we both shared,i cant concentrate on anything,or even injoy the things i once used to.
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