Anthonychris43 Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 There's this girl at my school who I'm attracted to. I have never met her before but she notices that I look at her from time to time. At first she seemed happy about it, but I didn't make a move. As time goes by I keep seeing her stare at me even when I don't stare at her. She works at this coffee shop at school and I went to buy a coffee while she was working, but had the other worker serve me. She hand't noticed that I was there, then when she turned around she seemed uncomfortable around me, she just looked at me kind of nervous. After that when I see her I find it hard to look at her because she knows I'm into her but it's been too long since I tried anything I feel it won't happen. My friend is friends with her cousin and I asked him to introduce me to her, she says yes and we'd go study the 4 of us. Then when the time came, her cousin said she'd never answered her phone. To me it seems she's not interested but the signals that I get when we look at each other does. I'm also not the type she typically dates so that's throwing me off too. I don't know what I should do, can you guys please give me some advice.
Cocollective Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 I learnt girls looking at you is not a sure sign that they are into you. Sometimes they look because they are curious, to see if you are into them. You sound like me, a shy guy, so if you really like her, ask her. Even the shyest guy in the world will muster enough courage to ask a girl he really likes, even if they are blushing furiously, sweating profusely and stammering like a chicken. You'll regret it that you never gave it a shot later on. Even if you do get rejected, you should be proud of yourself for making the move cos that takes courage. My 2cs Rich
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