Easyguy14 Posted February 11, 2012 Posted February 11, 2012 this is not a thread to knock the opposite sex. that's not my nature. Im in awe at the number of immature young ladies throughout the city. it seems like very few of them know what they want. many of them are out of work or in school for years and years without ever graduating. Im not looking in to young girls now Im referring to anywhere between 27-35. do I have to go even older just to make a connection? where do mature-mind, serious women hang out looking to meet likewise in a man? do I need to try some kind of meetup site? any good advice will be appreciated.
Author Easyguy14 Posted February 12, 2012 Author Posted February 12, 2012 wondering why there's no responses to this thread yet??
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 I don't think your knocking women down at all Easyguy. There are many immature women. It seems that there is a delayed maturity in both genders for some people. Even for the ages of 27-35. I've seen it too among women. But I don't think you have to go older to find someone mature in that age range. Where are you currently meeting women? And how old are you if you don't mind me asking?
Mrlonelyone Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 Peoples brains physically grow in size until they are about 25. That has always been the case. So, that's the magic age, more or less. People mature fully at about 25. Some people never reach a truly emotionally mature state for allot of reasons. Often bad experiences scar a persons thinking into acting out dysfunctional behaviors.
Shaun-Dro Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 Peoples brains physically grow in size until they are about 25. That has always been the case. So, that's the magic age, more or less. People mature fully at about 25. Some people never reach a truly emotionally mature state for allot of reasons. Often bad experiences scar a persons thinking into acting out dysfunctional behaviors. 25? Are you serious? That's bad for the next generation if you ask me. I'm with the OP on women not reaching maturity until much later. It just feels so unfair that good, decent men around 25-30 have to wait until women get into their late 30s or early 40s before they come around. I know that's not exactly the norm, but it is something that's become a prevalent situation as of late. Once in a while a man will stumble upon a young woman in her 20s that's mature and knows how to be accordingly, but often those women aren't physically attractive. I mentioned things like this before in previous threads but I'm now trying to come at a more neutral angle than my past negative posts. I'm certain a lot of people do realize the difference. I wouldn't personally do meetups because I've heard that mostly the older men and women frequent that. I'm now beginning to lay off the younger spring chickens but I'm not going to go racing after women twice my age either. I suggest to the OP to just keep your eyes open wherever you go, so that eventually you'll meet a woman within your standards.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 It just feels so unfair that good, decent men around 25-30 have to wait until women get into their late 30s or early 40s before they come around. Shaun - Dro, have you been looking for a committed relationship? Sometimes I also find it hard to find decent mature men between 25-35. It happens for women too. Maybe not the spring chickens but maybe some Summer Hens would be a good choice...Winter Geese, not so much.
TheFinalWord Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 this is not a thread to knock the opposite sex. that's not my nature. Im in awe at the number of immature young ladies throughout the city. it seems like very few of them know what they want. many of them are out of work or in school for years and years without ever graduating. Im not looking in to young girls now Im referring to anywhere between 27-35. do I have to go even older just to make a connection? where do mature-mind, serious women hang out looking to meet likewise in a man? do I need to try some kind of meetup site? any good advice will be appreciated. Well the economy is terrible so the "American dream" isn't as easy to come by these days. So if they're out of work that may or may not be their fault. In terms of immaturity, I can't tell if you mean in terms of their behaviors or lack of direction in life. A lot of people are mature but have no life vision. If I asked 10 people what they want to accomplish in the next 5 years I'd wager only 1 would have a clear idea. In terms of behavior I would say the ratio is about 80/20 of immature to mature for women until they hit 29 or 30. For men its even worse, probably 90/10 of immature to mature. Men are immature b/c they live in extended adolescence. Women stay immature because they tend to socialize with immature men. They also get too wrapped up in the media fantasy world. They're educated by sex in the city and all of these never gonna happen chick flicks where a woman can be in love with two guys at the same. Basically the idea of prince charming has changed from a good man that will support her and provide for a family to a male model that makes millions of dollars. You'll notice that men never used to care about 6 packs until about 10 years ago. So the ideal man has changed a lot. It used to be about a man's work ethic, but it has changed to where looks matter a lot more. A real man is now big and muscular. A lot of it too is that women are now in an era of liberation. The traditional roles of men and women are changing. Women now outnumber men in colleges. So for the first time they can now decide what direction they want to go with their lives. So they don't feel pressured to pick a life course as early. That's why you see lots of articles about people waiting longer to get married or just staying single perpetually.
oldguy Posted February 12, 2012 Posted February 12, 2012 The average age is 25 There is a good reason for mid to later 20's people to seem more mature on average; It has to do mainly with cerebral development and hormones, although the testosterone in men at that age, (about 27 to 28 or younger), is more of a problem its believed. There are a lot of adds out promoting products that supposedly enhance testosterone. The truth is there needs to be a fine balance. More, (or too little), is not better. That is not to say any of this is true for everyone. I've met plenty of people in their 20's, (a few even a bit younger), who where very impressive. For obvious reasons its rare to find them hanging with the heard however. Just for the record, I wasn't one of those few who had their ***** together myself. Which is one of the reasons you couldn't pay me to be in my 20's again.
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