nevadagirl Posted February 11, 2012 Posted February 11, 2012 okay this is getting weird. every single night for what feels like the past few weeks i have dreamt about the ex. they are never good dreams. usually of the variety of him being indifferent to me when i try to engage him or i'll dream we're together and doing something ridiculous like having a baby to stay together or...you know whatever. just stupid dreams. i am really really tired of this! i don't understand! when do i move on? i don't sit in my cave and cry. i go out. i meet people. sometimes it's okay. sometimes it sucks. but i'm living. it's been about 5 months since break up, maybe a month and a half of NC (on HIS part anyway - i've been NC with him for about 3.5 months so i'm sure he's fine and dandy now) really want this to be over!
Philosoraptor Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 Don't dwell on dreams too much as they really don't mean a whole lot. You have many dreams a night that you don't remember but usually only the strongest have a chance of staying with us when we wake.
Author nevadagirl Posted February 15, 2012 Author Posted February 15, 2012 I know it's just weird because for the first few months I never dreamt about him and now it's like every single night. I'm sure it has something to do with finally accepting the loss or whatever but it's just really annoying. = )
janbaz Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Dreams are mind's way to handle with complex thoughts that we carry all day. I also used to dream about that girl a lot of times. And in all dreams, she was ignoring me. I dont know how it happens whenever I dream about her I encounter her somewhere (co-workers). And i got the manifestation of dream that she is ignoring me. I can understand your situation, these dreams sucks. All ties are broken in us, but it seems because all day I am thinking about her, my brain bring it back in the form of dreams to me. I suggest replacement. You must have a very healthy activity/peace/happiness. You should be happy from inside. Because, when i break up with that girl. Every thing sucks around me. I started hating my work, I become introvert. I socialize less. Because, I was not happy. Don't follow those dreams. Just be happy. God bless you.
IfiKnewThen Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 its been 1 few years and i had a dream the other night, that he was kind to me and wanted to be with me not the other person in his life. but that he was stuck in his situation now. i cant believe how much he affected me. i am strong...but this wishful thinking that it could have been more humane remains for now
ThatDudeXO Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 I still dream about my ex every night and she is always my 1st thought in the morning. I'd love to know how to change this.
Buttercup84 Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 Before and after the breakup I dreamed of my ex all the time , him ignoring me and being cruel . I felt very drained and sad for a long time . Try listening to nice soft music before bed , watch what you eat and think of something that makes you happy when in bed . Try and not watch tv or go on the internet close to bedtime too . Some things do help to give you a good nights sleep.
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