EnigmaticClarity Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Also, re: Twilight etc... Yes, I've noticed the same thing about men catching up with the fact women liking Twilight, True Blood etc, where the male actors are hot, and they are not liking it. If porn goes the same way, I'm positive men will not be so happy with their girlfriends/wives watching porn on a regular basis. I think it's fantastic. Men will finally be forced to get over their insecurities.
Emilia Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I personaly don't believe porn is good for men. I'm not sure what effect it has on women but... I'd be curious if a girl told me she watched porn. I'd want her to show me what she watches. I'd try to figure when she started watching it and why she feels the need to. I think a girl watching porn is very different then a guy watching it. Maybe not as mad... maybe worse! A girl I dated once told me she looks at porn but I never really thought about it to much. Part of me thought she was just saying it. I got bored with it after a short while to tell you the truth. I would search for something that came to my mind when I was bored (haven't done it for a while) but most of it is a bit c**P really. I have never used paying sites and I think there is a huge limit to what you can watch for free. It was more about curiousity for me than anything, watching stuff I have never done myself and wasn't ever likely to. I don't find watching pornography even close to the real thing so if I'm not getting it, it doesn't satisfy me or just reminds me that I'm not getting it which in turn is annoying.
EnigmaticClarity Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Large boobs are just for show and few if any men will require somebody above average. But penis size is entirely different. We've all heard about size queens. And the last thing I'd want is for a girl to expect me to be bigger and disappointed because all the guys in porn are huge. Few if any women will require somebody above average. I've got no way to measure and compare the percentage of men who require large boobs to the percentage of women who require large penises--do you? All I know is they're both in the great minority simply out of necessity--there aren't enough girls and guys who fit the above-average measurements to go around.
silvermercy Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 No chance, I don't believe most straight people find gay sex a turn on at all. Watching porn is about putting yourself in the situation that's on screen I think only 18 year-old boys worry about Twilight. Nope for both statements. For the first, search YAOI (a Japanese term for cleverly disguised porn aimed at women) for example on any website such as deviantart, fanfiction.net Tumblr, Y!Gallery, Aarin Fantasy, Pixiv, Yaoi Haven, and of course Youtube, and it's popular from 13 year old girls to full grown adult females. Also, look up how many YAOI anime and manga there are (for ADULT women). Millions of yen in the east and dollars in the West are spent by females on this particular category only. There are many others. At first I was disturbed but the phenomenon but now I'm quite fond of it. http://www.animevice.com/news/why-girls-like-yaoi-a-biological-side/2751/ I just had to throw away my preconceptions that only men can watch lesbians but women should not watch gay men. It happens a lot now and the popularity is increasing. As for the second part: most "gay" "faggot" and hate comments I have seen about Twilight, True Blood and the like come from 18+ adult men.
aj22one Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Kind of the flipside of the porn coin...men, how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend watches porn regularly (1 or 2 times a week)? Let's assume your sex life is otherwise happy and healthy. She does. And she makes me watch with her. I'm fine with it. Especially since we have a healthy sex life.
Onlyjonley Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I do every so often. I used to watch it sometimes with my ex but have never mentioned it to my current boyfriend ...mostly because I only watch every so often, so it hasn't really come up.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 (edited) Everyone decides for themselves. Best as I can determine when it comes to size, women slightly above average sizes when it comes to height, penis/butt, and muscles, but not way above average. Men prefer the same with regards to boobs and hips/butt. Some people want extremes, but not many. The only extreme preference I have in women is height--the taller, the better. I am attracted to tall me. But then I am also attracted to shorter men. I personally have never been particularly attracted to a man's butt. Infact, I guess I perfer a man with a smaller one then one that sticks out. I also have never found sex better with a man with a bigger penis. I do not think "bigger" means better. I suspect most women don't either. However, it's probably true that men believe this way. Which is why so many women have breast implants in porn. If I go by porn, then men are clearly more excited by cartoon ideals then a real woman with a real body. I wouldn't want to live in a world where men were getting penil implants to live up to a standard created by an entertainment industry. However, that's the world women are getting breast implants because of a standard createad by an entertainment industry. Edited February 10, 2012 by Disenchantedly Yours
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I love watching men's faces in porn. I have only recently started watching gay porn and I am really into it Other than that, I like gang bangs and amateur stuff. Women don't turn me on at all, so the more men the better
EnigmaticClarity Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I do not think "bigger" means better. I suspect most women don't either. The penis size threads around here have indicated a strong preference for the 6" to 7" size range which is above average. Most men don't want the extremes of boob size, either. I know I don't, they start to look unattractive when they're above E, i.e. bigger than my head.
runner Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I got bored with it after a short while to tell you the truth. I would search for something that came to my mind when I was bored (haven't done it for a while) but most of it is a bit c**P really. I have never used paying sites and I think there is a huge limit to what you can watch for free. It was more about curiousity for me than anything, watching stuff I have never done myself and wasn't ever likely to. I don't find watching pornography even close to the real thing so if I'm not getting it, it doesn't satisfy me or just reminds me that I'm not getting it which in turn is annoying. exactly...
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 The penis size threads around here have indicated a strong preference for the 6" to 7" size range which is above average. Most men don't want the extremes of boob size, either. I know I don't, they start to look unattractive when they're above E, i.e. bigger than my head. I'd say anything over 8 inch is above average. Anything from 5 to 7 inches is pretty average. When did size E boobs even become a register for boob size???? Desiring big boobs is one thing. However, when all men see are mostly breast enhanced women in their media, they kind of begin to formulate unrealistic expectations.
Author kiss_andmakeup Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 Wow, this thread blew up while I was asleep. Not threatened. I just wouldn't want her losing some horniness between sexcapades. That desire should be saved for me. And that's why I wouldn't watch porn either, I'd want to be at my best and not calmed down because I got off to porn a couple of days prior. Uhh...trust me, "lost horniness" isn't a problem. I already practically want sex more often than my boyfriend. When I see him I'm jumping his bones, even if I've masturbated every day that week. Although, I don't really get watching porn together at all. Why would you want to get horny over another man/woman then have sex with your parner? Can't you get horny over your partner enough alone? Well, I can't always have sex with my partner. We live an hour apart so I spend Saturday-Tuesday at his place; the remaining days I'm on my own. It would never come down to choosing masturbation over him if he's around - I would absolutely rather have sex with him. Actually, sometimes I do fantasize about him when I masturbate. But it takes me longer to "get there" so to speak because, perhaps like men, I'm a very visual person. Watching porn expedites the process: I have something visual to get me turned on enough to orgasm within 5 or 10 minutes. If I'm fantasizing, it's almost like meditation. I have to be able to concentrate, focus on my fantasy, block out the outside world...and that just doesn't always work. There are too many factors, i.e. stress, that prevent me from zeroing in on my fantasy. It might give women a little perspective into why men watch porn to know that I couldn't actually care less about what the guy in the porno looks like. Old, young, overweight, underweight, black, white, I don't care. I don't care what the woman looks like either (I never venture over the the BBW section but that's only because I'd find their obesity distracting). I watch purely for the sexual interaction. That is what turns me on - not the other man. I've gotten off to plenty of pornos that starred men I did not find attractive. That said...my boyfriend so much as strokes my neck and I'm ready. I get turned on by him when we're together faster than I ever do with watching porn. If he were available to me for sex 24/7, I would likely never masturbate.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 That is very true and accurate! That's why gay porn is getting more and more popular with women. They have both nice bodies AND faces (and for some reason they appear as if they care for each other. Prolonged kissing is part of the sex act for example). LOL Also, re: Twilight etc... Yes, I've noticed the same thing about men catching up with the fact women liking Twilight, True Blood etc, where the male actors are hot, and they are not liking it. If porn goes the same way, I'm positive men will not be so happy with their girlfriends/wives watching porn on a regular basis. Haha... I don't think your going to find many guys that feel threatened by Twilight. Young guys will clown on it, because the show takes something predominantly male and makes it crazy feminine. Vampires should burst into flames when the sun hits them... that's hardcore. In Twilight.... they glitter like a drag queen. True Blood is awesome. I'm just tired of vampires. If my GF wants to watch porn... I'm Ok with that. Provided it isn't gay porn or exceedingly weird stuff. I would definitely have some questions if she was into that stuff.
kaylan Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I dunno about that... it is pretty hard finding porn with really hot men. And believe me, i have tried. (and tried and tried ) There are some, but you do have to hunt. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mancandy. go to a porno google site, like tube galore. I use that one and you can find ANYTHING you like with it. It basically catalogs every major porn sites new listings. So you can find what you seek. Plus there are porn sites out there that specifically cater to women. Not hard to find either.
EnigmaticClarity Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I'd say anything over 8 inch is above average. Anything from 5 to 7 inches is pretty average. When did size E boobs even become a register for boob size???? Desiring big boobs is one thing. However, when all men see are mostly breast enhanced women in their media, they kind of begin to formulate unrealistic expectations. If your concept of anything over 8 inches as being the starting point for being above average, I've got to wonder if the same applies to you and men's penis sizes. Sounds like you've either been incredibly lucky or watching too much porn! The studies cited on Wikipedia put the average penis size anywhere from 5 to 6 inches. My understanding is that the British measurements for cup sizes go A-B-C-D-DD-DDD, but many American clothing manufacturers tried to change that to A-B-C-D-E-F-etc. One letter per cup makes more sense to me, but I don't know what the majority of manufacturers do, I don't buy bras.
make me believe Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 And THAT is exactly the reaon why most men claim that they have "no problem" with it. It's easy to not feel threatened by ugly Rocco Sifredi types, or by porn that mostly focuses only on the women anyway and shows faceless, anonymous men. Watch how men's tune would change if porn exclusively showed tall, muscular, rich, model-type men with 10 inch d*cks. If men already got bent out of shape over the twilight or true blood sh*t, you bet they would sing a different tune if those type of actors were actually featured in a real porn for women to drool over and get off to. Yep. I agree with this 100%.
make me believe Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 If my GF wants to watch porn... I'm Ok with that. Provided it isn't gay porn or exceedingly weird stuff. I would definitely have some questions if she was into that stuff. What's wrong with a girl watching gay porn? I'm sure you, and probably all of the other guys in this thread, have spent your fair share of time watching "lesbian" porn..
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 If your concept of anything over 8 inches as being the starting point for being above average, I've got to wonder if the same applies to you and men's penis sizes. Sounds like you've either been incredibly lucky or watching too much porn! The studies cited on Wikipedia put the average penis size anywhere from 5 to 6 inches. My understanding is that the British measurements for cup sizes go A-B-C-D-DD-DDD, but many American clothing manufacturers tried to change that to A-B-C-D-E-F-etc. One letter per cup makes more sense to me, but I don't know what the majority of manufacturers do, I don't buy bras. When a woman loves you... your dick is 8", when she doesn't it's 6", and when she hates you it's 3". Just keep that in mind when women talk about penis size. They usually don't get a ruler out before making love.... so size is really subjective.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 If your concept of anything over 8 inches as being the starting point for being above average, I've got to wonder if the same applies to you and men's penis sizes. Sounds like you've either been incredibly lucky or watching too much porn! The studies cited on Wikipedia put the average penis size anywhere from 5 to 6 inches. My understanding is that the British measurements for cup sizes go A-B-C-D-DD-DDD, but many American clothing manufacturers tried to change that to A-B-C-D-E-F-etc. One letter per cup makes more sense to me, but I don't know what the majority of manufacturers do, I don't buy bras. I know I have read in other places that it was anywhere from 5-7. I am not disputing that average penis sizes are 5 and 6 inches. I think 7 inches can be included in that. I think 8+ is big. I do think that perceptions of breast size are changing because of porn. I have never heard of size E or even size DDD breasts. The average breast size use to be B-Cs, it now seems that the average is C-Ds. But so many women are getting breast implants I think this scews the number of what is realistic. I don't think placing breast implants as a natural barometer is really fair.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 When a woman loves you... your dick is 8", when she doesn't it's 6", and when she hates you it's 3". Just keep that in mind when women talk about penis size. They usually don't get a ruler out before making love.... so size is really subjective. It's true..i have never gotten out a ruler for the guys I slept with. Neither did I find it important to ask them their size. I just know they come in different sizes and the bigger ones aren't always more satisfying.
Author kiss_andmakeup Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 Why are you afraid and why tell him? I'm not suggesting you should hide anything but are you planning on having a sitdown to announce this news? Yeah, if he's a normal guy, then there should be no reason for her to be afraid to tell him. Shyness, perhaps. Kiss seems like a doll and maybe that's the reason. I guess I don't need to tell him necessarily, but I'm just curious about how he might feel if he did find out or I told him. I wonder if there are men out there who would consider it cheating. I assume he watches it just by virtue of him being a guy, but he never talks about it (perhaps he's afraid I'd be upset, which isn't the case). As for why I'm afraid to tell him, yes, I can be a bit shy about these things. I don't want him to think I'm a freak or a sex-crazed nympho or something. As for me being a doll, thanks. That's actually his nickname for me.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 What's wrong with a girl watching gay porn? I'm sure you, and probably all of the other guys in this thread, have spent your fair share of time watching "lesbian" porn.. There really isn't a rational explanation... it's just gay porn is gross. I don't watch the lesbian stuff either... although it doesn't make me feel weirded out.
xxoo Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 . I watch purely for the sexual interaction. That is what turns me on - not the other man. I've gotten off to plenty of pornos that starred men I did not find attractive. I'm the same, kiss. I love watching the act! And I think humans have since the beginning of time, if we judge by ancient erotic art.
TheBigQuestion Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 If your concept of anything over 8 inches as being the starting point for being above average, I've got to wonder if the same applies to you and men's penis sizes. Sounds like you've either been incredibly lucky or watching too much porn! The studies cited on Wikipedia put the average penis size anywhere from 5 to 6 inches. My understanding is that the British measurements for cup sizes go A-B-C-D-DD-DDD, but many American clothing manufacturers tried to change that to A-B-C-D-E-F-etc. One letter per cup makes more sense to me, but I don't know what the majority of manufacturers do, I don't buy bras. True story. Every study ever done on penis size (not that there have been many) has found that the average is 5 to 6 inches. I think 5.9 inches on the dot is the highest average any of those studies ever found. I think a condom company did another one that had a higher average, about 6.2 or so, but that was a volunteer-based study done on college students during spring break, so it wasn't exactly a random sampling. For all her talk about unrealistic expectations of women's bodies, DY sure seems to be clueless about male bodies. The average cup size is a larger B/smaller C, right? And to answer this question, my girlfriend watching porn doesn't bother me one bit. She cites easy porn-watching as one of the important benefits of having an iPhone.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 It's true..i have never gotten out a ruler for the guys I slept with. Neither did I find it important to ask them their size. I just know they come in different sizes and the bigger ones aren't always more satisfying. I have the exact same feelings towards boobs. My friend Bill just got married. His wife is like two nails on a board. He has never been more in love.
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