Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Breals What is wrong with men liking big breasts? It doesn't bother me one bit and I'm an A Cup. It's not the idea of men liking big breasts that bother me. I am bothered by the whole fake breast thing. I think women of all breasts sizes can be very beautiful. But a lot of women get breasts implants because they believe their breasts aren't good enough as they are. And since men do pay attention to women with big breasts, alot of women are paying to get the big breasts. If society accepted different body types more readily, there wouldn't be this competition for "bigger" and "better" body parts.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I absolutely agree that women play their part. But we do live in a world that picks apart women and their bodies. And we can't tell women to ignore these messages and be so self confident while at the same time justfying the things men do that contribute to that message. That's kind of where I stand on this. I think it makes logical sense. The thing is you depict men as one dimensional when clearly the breast issue is different for each man so you cant say men actually contribute because its not all men.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 It's not the idea of men liking big breasts that bother me. I am bothered by the whole fake breast thing. I think women of all breasts sizes can be very beautiful. But a lot of women get breasts implants because they believe their breasts aren't good enough as they are. And since men do pay attention to women with big breasts, alot of women are paying to get the big breasts. If society accepted different body types more readily, there wouldn't be this competition for "bigger" and "better" body parts. That is a woman's own insecurity causing her to get "bigger" and "better" body parts not men.
xxoo Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I don't think this statement changes what I said. I'm confused becaue you seem to think it's an explanation but it does is reinforce my earlier comment to me. When you notice men turning there heads toward women with large breasts, you conclude that they like large breasts. But do you conclude that they like them more than smaller breasts? Because I think they simply "see" large breasts more than smaller breasts when women are dressed. They press out, present themselves, so to speak. No one turns to look at my smaller chest, because it is just not obvious when I am dressed. Not much to see. It doesn't mean he necessarily prefers large to small. It just means the large ones are the only ones out for show in public. When the clothes come off, he may not prefer one over the other at all.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 When you notice men turning there heads toward women with large breasts, you conclude that they like large breasts. But do you conclude that they like them more than smaller breasts? Because I think they simply "see" large breasts more than smaller breasts when women are dressed. They press out, present themselves, so to speak. No one turns to look at my smaller chest, because it is just not obvious when I am dressed. Not much to see. It doesn't mean he necessarily prefers large to small. It just means the large ones are the only ones out for show in public. When the clothes come off, he may not prefer one over the other at all. That is so true
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 When you notice men turning there heads toward women with large breasts, you conclude that they like large breasts. But do you conclude that they like them more than smaller breasts? Because I think they simply "see" large breasts more than smaller breasts when women are dressed. They press out, present themselves, so to speak. No one turns to look at my smaller chest, because it is just not obvious when I am dressed. Not much to see. It doesn't mean he necessarily prefers large to small. It just means the large ones are the only ones out for show in public. When the clothes come off, he may not prefer one over the other at all. Yes of course I assume when a man is looking happily at large breasts, that he likes large breasts more. You look at what you like. You don't spend time looking at things you aren't attracted to. His action is giving clues about that.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Yes of course I assume when a man is looking happily at large breasts, that he likes large breasts more. You look at what you like. You don't spend time looking at things you aren't attracted to. His action is giving clues about that. Large funbags are more easily noticed. Even women look at them so women like large breast too
xxoo Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Yes of course I assume when a man is looking happily at large breasts, that he likes large breasts more. You look at what you like. You don't spend time looking at things you aren't attracted to. His action is giving clues about that. Doesn't it make any sense at all that men can't SEE smaller breasts under clothes?
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 still hilarious how a crazed women can basically get everyone off topic.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Doesn't it make any sense at all that men can't SEE smaller breasts under clothes? She doesn't want it to make sense. Its just an attack on men like always
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Doesn't it make any sense at all that men can't SEE smaller breasts under clothes? *scratches head*. I guess it depends what clothes you are wearing. If you are wearing something baggy, you can't. But if a girl with a larger chest is wearing something baggy, it's going to change the way her body looks too. However, if a girl is wearing something tighter, you can still see her breasts whether they be smaller or bigger.
ThaWholigan Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I absolutely agree that women play their part. But we do live in a world that picks apart women and their bodies. And we can't tell women to ignore these messages and be so self confident while at the same time justfying the things men do that contribute to that message. That's kind of where I stand on this. I think it makes logical sense. It does make sense, although I would think there would need to be a balance from both men and women regarding the issue. I think that men who are tactless and display disdain at women they find sexually unattractive are not a majority in many cases, even though it may seem that way. It comes from a place of immaturity and unformed masculinity IMO.
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I'm just looking from now on its a shame that some of these crazy women can say whatever the hell they want but I say something then I'm reported. Why don't they just "woman up". People say stuff to me on here but I don't run and tell it I man up
xxoo Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 *scratches head*. I guess it depends what clothes you are wearing. If you are wearing something baggy, you can't. But if a girl with a larger chest is wearing something baggy, it's going to change the way her body looks too. However, if a girl is wearing something tighter, you can still see her breasts whether they be smaller or bigger. I wear form fitting clothes, but my boobs aren't big enough to show cleavage in a V neck tee, for example, unless you are looking down my shirt. Imagine a D cup in a simple v-neck tee...., Or imagine this. A woman with a D cup, in a tight shirt, walks in next to a woman with a B cup, no shirt at all. Topless. Who are they going to look at?
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I wear form fitting clothes, but my boobs aren't big enough to show cleavage in a V neck tee, for example, unless you are looking down my shirt. Imagine a D cup in a simple v-neck tee...., Or imagine this. A woman with a D cup, in a tight shirt, walks in next to a woman with a B cup, no shirt at all. Topless. Who are they going to look at? I don't know, who are they going to look at? I don't even understand what point you are trying to make with me.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Breals Well, if a woman decides to pay for implants only because men like that then that's her problem. How does it affect me? It's not my life. Absoluetely. Did I say otherwise? I am talking about a social commentary on beauty and standards. Not indivudals. I have nothing specific against women that get breast implants. They can be wonderful people and beautiful ones too. I specifically find something off about a society that says that you can be more beautiful then your natural self by putting something foreign in your body. Now you might disagree. That's okay. I've also heard of men getting penis enlargements because they think that's what women likes. So what? Men do not get penis enlargements to the degree that women get breast implants. You talk alot about judgements and how they shouldn't be made but you keep trying to argue me into a opinion that agrees with yours. I simply don't see it like you do.
EnigmaticClarity Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 (edited) Penis enlargement surgery carries risk of decreased function or even ED...screwing around with that isn't worth the risk for anyone except those who are severely small, as in so small they can't have sex, or for those who severely lack self-esteem. A significant number of women get implants for another primary purpose than size enhancement--it's the safest way to do a lift to remove stretch marks from excessive weight gain/loss or from pregnancy breast feeding. Increasing the size at the same time is just a bonus for some. A straight lift without an implant is a much more involved operation--they have to split the bottom of the breast, push the tissue up, and then cut off some skin. That's a lot more involved and leaves a lot more visual marking than an implant inserted along the bottom fold next to the chest. Easier way to look at it--since a lift is essentially refilling a stretched-out balloon, it's easier to stuff more into the balloon than to cut the balloon up to make it fit its contents again. Still, the percentage of women who get implants for any reason is fairly low--somewhere under 5%. I've heard 1%, I've heard 3%...probably hard to tell for sure. Edited February 14, 2012 by EnigmaticClarity
xxoo Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I don't know, who are they going to look at? I don't even understand what point you are trying to make with me. They'll look at the topless woman! Because her boobs are out. Just like they look at women with big boobs in clothes, because their boobs are "out" (pushing out, cleavage showing).
Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 They'll look at the topless woman! Because her boobs are out. Just like they look at women with big boobs in clothes, because their boobs are "out" (pushing out, cleavage showing). Okay, but I don't know what this hypothetical proves XXOO. That a smaller woman has to actually be naked to get attention but a woman with bigger breasts just have to exist to get attention? Isn't that the point I am already making? That men show what they like through what they pay attention to?
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 still hilarious how (fill in the blank) can basically get everyone off topic. I know. I would like it if this activity would be confined to its own forum or something. It's dragging the atmosphere down badly. Isn't this thread about how men would feel if their girls watched porn?
joystickd Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 I know. I would like it if this activity would be confined to its own forum or something. It's dragging the atmosphere down badly. Isn't this thread about how men would feel if their girls watched porn? Yes it is. I wonder where the responses for that are
xxoo Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Okay, but I don't know what this hypothetical proves XXOO. That a smaller woman has to actually be naked to get attention but a woman with bigger breasts just have to exist to get attention? Isn't that the point I am already making? That men show what they like through what they pay attention to? My point is that, imo, it means little to nothing when a man looks at a woman's obvious boobs in public. It means he noticed boobs, period. Nothing more. Women with smaller breasts are noticed, too, for other reasons. I get noticed for my legs, not my boobs. It means: play up your strengths. Got a big butt? Rock it! Got thick hair? Grow it long, and play with it.
xxoo Posted February 14, 2012 Posted February 14, 2012 Women with smaller breasts are noticed, too, for other reasons. I get noticed for my legs, not my boobs. It means: play up your strengths. Got a big butt? Rock it! Got thick hair? Grow it long, and play with it. Let me change that to: Play up your strengths that he will notice with your clothes on.
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