kiss_andmakeup Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Kind of the flipside of the porn coin...men, how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend watches porn regularly (1 or 2 times a week)? Let's assume your sex life is otherwise happy and healthy.
Star Gazer Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Hmm. I'm curious to see the responses...
runner Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 prolly watch some with her, occasionally...and other times tease her about it, and call her a 'porn addict' of course i've never dated a girl who actually cared for porn like you're assuming. i'm wondering if they even exist.
Cracker Jack Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I wouldn't mind at all, honestly. I'd actually welcome it! I don't have an issue with porn, so I'd be open to her watching it.
Star Gazer Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 i'm wondering if they even exist. They do, I assure you.
Author kiss_andmakeup Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 prolly watch some with her, occasionally...and other times tease her about it, and call her a 'porn addict' of course i've never dated a girl who actually cared for porn like you're assuming. i'm wondering if they even exist. I actually do, that's why I'm asking this question. I'm kind of afraid to tell my boyfriend.
Els Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I'm guessing most guys wouldn't mind. At least, none of the guys I've been with have minded. My current bf actually thought it was kinda hawt. Granted, I don't do dumb stuff like watch porn all day and neglect everything else, or prefer watching porn over sex with the bf, like some of the horror stories you read about here...
Author kiss_andmakeup Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 Girls do not watch porn. And if they do it is not for sexual stimulation, they do it out of spite to annoy the guy. :laugh::laugh: So not true. Trust me...personal experience.
Star Gazer Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Girls do not watch porn. And if they do it is not for sexual stimulation, they do it out of spite to annoy the guy. Tell that to my hand an hour ago.
poodle Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Great question! I'd love to read more answers from guys. The only difference is that there are extremely beautiful women in porn, but mostly only old ugly balding men. I don't think men would feel threatened by them.
Author kiss_andmakeup Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 Great question! I'd love to read more answers from guys. The only difference is that there are extremely beautiful women in porn, but mostly only old ugly balding men. I don't think men would feel threatened by them. I'm kind of thinking the same thing. I definitely don't watch porn for the "man candy," more just the act of sex itself is what's arousing for me.
Els Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Great question! I'd love to read more answers from guys. The only difference is that there are extremely beautiful women in porn, but mostly only old ugly balding men. I don't think men would feel threatened by them. Rofl, really? What sort of porn are you watching??
Els Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I think a difference needs to be made between the porn productions in which the producer is also the actor, etc (so obviously he won't be hot, having sex with those girls is part of his 'salary'), and those that hire male porn actors. The male porn actors - those that actually make a living out of starring in various productions - generally do look stereotypically hot IME. But all that said, I don't watch porn for the guys either.
Star Gazer Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I'm kind of thinking the same thing. I definitely don't watch porn for the "man candy," more just the act of sex itself is what's arousing for me. Same. The guys are rarely attractive to me. Half the time you can't even really see them anyway.
runner Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 (edited) They do, I assure you. and that makes me sad ...cos i don't have their numbers I actually do, that's why I'm asking this question. I'm kind of afraid to tell my boyfriend. if he isn't a prude, then i say tell him. perhaps dance around the topic a bit and see how he reacts. ...then come back and report ! Rofl, really? What sort of porn are you watching?? x-art has some pretty good quality stuff ...and, no, i don't actually pay for it. freebies are available on some sites. Edited February 10, 2012 by runner
somedude81 Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Kind of the flipside of the porn coin...men, how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend watches porn regularly (1 or 2 times a week)? Let's assume your sex life is otherwise happy and healthy. I have no problem with women watching porn. But I don't see a point in watching it if you are in a relationship, especially if the sex life is "otherwise happy and healthy." I look at porn because I'm single and have nobody to sleep with. Once I get somebody, I'd give up porn and expect the same from her.
USMCHokie Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I have no problem with women watching porn. But I don't see a point in watching it if you are in a relationship, especially if the sex life is "otherwise happy and healthy." I look at porn because I'm single and have nobody to sleep with. Once I get somebody, I'd give up porn and expect the same from her. I disagree. When I was with the ex, I stopped watching porn by myself, but I still watched occasionally with her. It just added variety to an otherwise happy and healthy sex life.
kaylan Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 My ex used to watch it about 2 times a week. More if she had the time. It was kool to have that in common I guess. We could share what turns us on and off in porn, and maybe tip the other on something new to check out. Wasnt anything I saw as a super exciting though. I was kinda "meh" about it, since most people check out porn nowadays anyways. Its nice to have a sexually relaxed mate though.
kaylan Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Great question! I'd love to read more answers from guys. The only difference is that there are extremely beautiful women in porn, but mostly only old ugly balding men. I don't think men would feel threatened by them. You sure about this? The women arent super hot all the time, and the guys arent ugos all the time either. Theres soooooo much porn out there nowadays that one cannot simply fall back on the old "all the women are hot, but the dudes are gross" argument anymore. Girls do not watch porn. And if they do it is not for sexual stimulation, they do it out of spite to annoy the guy. No sure if srs Either you are very naive, or youre a pretty lame troll.
Jynxx Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I've never had a relationship with a girl that didn't occasionally watch porn. We usually watch together, I had no issue with it at all. Can't even believe guys here never had a girl that liked porn.Then again, I've never been in a relationship with a boring conservative woman that most people here would describe as "wife material". Maybe that's why my relationships don't tend to last long, who knows.
counterman Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I wouldn't mind. In fact, we could watch it together.
EnigmaticClarity Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I'm not sure how I'd feel. I can't imagine feeling threatened...the idea of it turns me on right now, but I suspect that could morph into something else. Ideal situation is that it increased her sexual creativity. Any of you girls who currently look at porn mind sharing what types you're into, what type you seek out?
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