mridul_chajilee Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Even after 2years of breakup,i miss her.I want to hear her voice again.Now,i have two girlfriends but im not interested in them,they always take care of me but my heart and mind seems not for them. Finaly,I make fake calls in my mobile as if my Ex is calling and get some peace.No where to Run,i miss her.
screwup Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Same here. Before we met, and after we broke up, I've met women from all walks of life with varying degrees of success from unemployed to a photographer for the Olympics, different senses of humor, different and similar interests that relate to mine, and more.. but no one is her. At this point, my only option is to break all contact and forget about her to the best of my ability.
CaliBabe Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Same with me. I met an amazing guy, major physical chemistry, but he is not my ex. I know this guy is amazing but I just can't seem to commit my heart.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted February 11, 2012 Author Posted February 11, 2012 I have done all those NC Rules etc etc successfully to heal my wound but still have scars.I know she is indifferent or hates me,my friends sometimes inform me that she was seen alone in the street,market etc etc but it may not mean that she is alone,may be she has her new Boo.But i dont know why does it happen in my life that i still need her.So many beautiful girls are now in my life even they take care of me but i dont get peace of mind without her.
cincinnatikid Posted February 11, 2012 Posted February 11, 2012 God, from your post I hear so much of you in me. It's only been 6 months but I understand everything you are saying. You find HER in almost everything you do because, well, she was everything to you. To be honest, that's OUR fault. Read any book, blog post, etc. on relationships. The healthiest ones are those where each person is happy with who they are first, the rest falls into place. It took me sometime to realize that while I was always happy with her (and she made me feel so loved) I never felt that way about myself, for the most part. As a result, she became my whole world. Consciously, or subconsciously, I think she felt that as well. What a heavy and cumbersome burden to bear. I do not mean to leave breadcrumbs but you never know what the future holds. In time, god only knows what is in store for you or her. The most important thing though is to focus on you, to find things that make you happy. Once you can create that for yourself and build an environment that truly works for you than - from what I believe - the rest of the chips will fall into their rightful place.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted February 13, 2012 Author Posted February 13, 2012 I can take medicine to forget her but it may ruin my health.NC Work at the 1st time of breakup but in older stage it does not work at all.
Philosoraptor Posted February 13, 2012 Posted February 13, 2012 What have you been doing to move on? Other than NC what have you done to heal yourself and fix your wounds? You're the only one who can fix yourself.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted February 13, 2012 Author Posted February 13, 2012 I took medicine to forget her.I became more busy with my work,i went to tour,i went to temple,i did hard labour in field as sweating is a good anti-depresant etc.But still the same,i still need her.
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