Disenchantedly Yours Posted February 11, 2012 Posted February 11, 2012 I feel like my quality of life increased tenfold after I recently closed all my online dating accounts... I had the same reaction USMC! Online dating was a headache.
Author PhillyDude Posted February 11, 2012 Author Posted February 11, 2012 The other posters are right. You should be asking for the girl's number. If she's not comfortable giving out her phone number, she'll say so. But giving out your own number is like telling the girl that you want her to pursue you. Might as well have "Beta Male" tattooed on your forehead. Or you could skip the phone call entirely and just ask the girl out for coffee, but you have already expressed your desire to delay the face-to-face meeting as long as possible. Personally, I don't give my phone number to people I've never met, no matter how much I like their online persona. And I'm not going to call him, because then he'd have my number. If I'm talking to a guy online who insists on having a phone call before we meet, I just move on to someone else. Talking to a stranger on the phone is mad awkward; I much prefer our first conversation to be in person. I bet those "females" who never called you felt the same way. They probably wondered why you were asking them to call, when you should have been asking them out. And talking to a stranger in public is not arkward at all huh?
irc333 Posted February 11, 2012 Posted February 11, 2012 SEE! I'm not the ONLY one. LOL LOL, I had a 2 hour conversation on IM with this female and then at the end I gave my number and I never heard from her Another female exchanged emails with e back and forth and when I left my number, I never heard from her Another female I contacted said she was in a relationship which may have been creative REJECTION lol So from this point on, IM conversations are OVER, and I'm not sending no more than 3 EMAILS on the site. The last email will include my number I feel like a fool wasting all my time and energy and they are on the other side of the screen laughing. TONIGHT, is a NEW NIGHT
irc333 Posted February 11, 2012 Posted February 11, 2012 The other posters are right. You should be asking for the girl's number. If she's not comfortable giving out her phone number, she'll say so. But giving out your own number is like telling the girl that you want her to pursue you. You know what else is funny, there's some post on THIS site, where someone's DEAD on advice (any many posts like it) advising a man to GIVE a woman his #. But, apparently he's confident enough in this method, because it works for him, always having women call him. I laughed in his virtual face.
Author PhillyDude Posted February 11, 2012 Author Posted February 11, 2012 When it comes to PRETTY WOMAN, they don't like to give out that number that easily so I usually just gave my number. Ugly Older women will give you their number first-lol
Author PhillyDude Posted February 11, 2012 Author Posted February 11, 2012 Ok I took the advice I recieved in this thread and asked for this girl's number Me: I'm interested in getting to know so maybe we can chat on the phone later? Her" Are you asking for my number? Me: Yes I am So I won't just offer my number anymore
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