Saxis Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Its okay to tell a guy prior to sex that he has to leave after. I agree that this would be better. I'd probably be fine if she said "OK, we can do this but I don't think you should spend the night quite yet."
Author ditzchic Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 I agree that this would be better. I'd probably be fine if she said "OK, we can do this but I don't think you should spend the night quite yet." Ok so basically how I'm reading this now is that it's more of a turnoff to guys to withhold sex until I'm fully comfortable with them than it is to tell them that I'd prefer they not stay? Am I reading that right? And will having that conversation with them land me in the "not girlfriend material" category?
Saxis Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 Ok so basically how I'm reading this now is that it's more of a turnoff to guys to withhold sex until I'm fully comfortable with them than it is to tell them that I'd prefer they not stay? Am I reading that right? And will having that conversation with them land me in the "not girlfriend material" category? Yes, because you are being honest.
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