bluewolf17 Posted February 9, 2012 Posted February 9, 2012 Do you think that if you live with someone, then they move out, it's a pretty bad sign? My ex moved in with a girl right away after meeting her, they lived with roomates for 6 months, then rented a house alone in December. He said that in January they got in a huge fight, and he told her he couldn't be with someone like her. She moved all of her **** out while he was at work the next day. I think they are still talking..but that' pretty bad, right? I would think if someone moves out after you live together, it's a pretty strong indication of a break up.
Philosoraptor Posted February 9, 2012 Posted February 9, 2012 Yes, it is a strong sign of a breakup. It is also not a very smart decision to tie up your finances with someone you have just met. Are you asking this because you are still very good friends with your ex and have a platonic relationship with him? Or are you asking because you still haven't moved on and continue to concern yourself with his affairs? ---- Seeing as I can see I just responded to one of your threads it is the latter. You both need to allow yourselves time to heal before you can ever start something with this man again. You are in a very fragile state and still with someone else. End your current relationship, take time to heal and figure yourself out, and then there might be a chance, if your ex does the same, that you may be able to work on things.
Author bluewolf17 Posted February 9, 2012 Author Posted February 9, 2012 (edited) That’s what I thought..it’s pretty bad to move out after only a month. I am asking this because I haven’t moved on and I still concern myself with his affairs. I left him completely alone when they were together, against all my instincts I didn’t contact him because I wanted him to be happy, and I thought maybe he finally found someone..but I really wanted it to be me, but I missed my chance. I am asking because I hoped that he would stay single and I really hope they don’t get back together. You did respond to my lengthy post, thank you so much. Sometimes it’s hard to hear everything, and I’m am in a very fragile state. Thank you for your kindness. Edited February 9, 2012 by bluewolf17 grammer
flitzanu Posted February 9, 2012 Posted February 9, 2012 That’s what I thought..it’s pretty bad to move out after only a month. I am asking this because I haven’t moved on and I still concern myself with his affairs. I left him completely alone when they were together, against all my instincts I didn’t contact him because I wanted him to be happy, and I thought maybe he finally found someone..but I really wanted it to be me, but I missed my chance. I am asking because I hoped that he would stay single and I really hope they don’t get back together. You did respond to my lengthy post, thank you so much. Sometimes it’s hard to hear everything, and I’m am in a very fragile state. Thank you for your kindness. i have nothing to add, other than i ADMIRE the honesty in the first line of your reply. you didn't bs or lie, you answered DIRECTLY with TRUTH. that's a good sign that at least you're aware and not delusional of your feelings.
Author bluewolf17 Posted February 9, 2012 Author Posted February 9, 2012 Thanks Flitzanu.. No point in lying on the internet, right?
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