Micheal Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 ok,here goes.me and my ex were togeter for 2 years lived together for one.had problems , she had two kids from an ex and i was a college student with no kids,so needless to say it took me time to adjust to family life but i truely love her and the kids,but i remember putting all the responsibilies of the kids on her and not really doing my part.well we startled fighting about dumb stuff and eventully broke up.i went to my sis house for awhile and had no contact with her and the kids for like 8 months,but then i moved to vegas ,nevada for shcool ,she lives in indiana,and also i couldnt stand being in a small town ,where she lived without her,to many memories.so a year after we broke up ,i write her not even sure if she lived there anymore.well she wrote back and we started talking , but the wierdest thing .i called her close to my b-day and asked if she wanted to fly down and help me celebrate ,well she was all yeses ,so i was like great and was excited but the next day i deciced it would be better to wait so i called her and no ansewr ,couple days go by i call agin same thing,coupls more days da da da .and that was the last i heard from her.so what should i do?i thought i just missed imtamcy with someone but after a few girlfriends i found that wasnt it .i just missed her .now im here with anything anyone could want but its all **** to me iand i dont even care anymore ,it seems ive lost my passion for life because even with money,girls,partying,etc... it all seems worthless .what should i do.im stuck!
JustSoRight Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 If you can't get her on the phone then write another letter telling her how you feel for her.
sara1974 Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 I can relate to you a little about having a boy or girl friend with kids when you dont have any.. Me and my ex boyfriend use to live together with his 3 kids from his ex wife. It took awhile to get use to them being around and dealing with the drama from his ex. They were good kids and we got along great I treated them just like my own. The problem is he didn'twant anymore kids. That broke my heart because I don't have any of my own and I've always dreamed of having a big family. We have now separated and it's for the better. Im not letting any man deprive me of children because he already has his.
Author Micheal Posted June 3, 2004 Author Posted June 3, 2004 so do u have any advice on what i should do about my ex??
sara1974 Posted June 3, 2004 Posted June 3, 2004 I agree with JustSoRight, try writing her a letter or e-mailing her. If she's still not giving you the time of day to just listen to you and here your plea, then I would try to move on. I know it's hard "trust me" Im going through the same thing. Instead of wasting time on her your missing the opportunity on meeting someone else. If it's meant to be you guys will be together again.
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