El Brujo Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 Joining 2 non-alcohol singles meetup groups last fall was the best move I made in a long time because it changed my outlook entirely. Now my online dating profile is just a relic of my own former naivete. When I scroll through pics of women on any OLDS, I feel sorry for them instead of for myself, because all I see when I look at them are a bunch of future cougars. They are "hot" and they know it, and they get some kind of perverse pleasure out of playing games and denying men love who really need it. There has been a lot of talk over the last few years about men who got tired of all the rejection, so they went overseas, married native women, and are living happily ever after. There are some towns in those countries where expat American males are the majority. Personally, I'm not ready to do anything that drastic. However... When I go to the 2 meetup groups I'm a member of, it's always worth it because I've had fascinating conversations with a lot of the women there (even if I haven't yet met any I'd want to spend the rest of my life with)... and in light of this fact, there's no way some online hottie can hope to pack enough sting to break my heart if she rejects me. Sorry, Miss Hottie, but these are jollies you're never gonna get. So... if you're a woman and you've read this far, don't set yourself up to be a future cougar!!! Stop playing games ASAP!!!
Eddie Edirol Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 Dude, youre not supposed to NEED love. Youre supposed to be happy with yourself, and love would be nice if it comes your way. You say that like they should give you pity love. But anyway, good for you for seeing that socializing and not needing to hit on women while talking to them makes you not so needy for a date. If youre getting great conversation in those meetups, then youre most likely not going to get good conversation like that from the hotties anyway.
PlumPrincess Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 They are "hot" and they know it, and they get some kind of perverse pleasure out of playing games and denying men love who really need it. Really, what is it with you guys??
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