HeartOnSleeve Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 So I have been seeing this guy on and off for a YEAR now...eek! This weekend we kind of got in to it over something stupid and very passive aggressive that I know I should not have said. He has a lot of pressure on him right now and things are pretty stressful so I know I should not have acted the way I did. Now I am left with him being uncommunicative and cold when he is in touch. I was thinking about writing him a note to let him know how I felt and apologize for my actions. YAY OR NAY? Do guys appreciate that kind of thing or should I just let it go and wait for him to get over it...if he does. I feel like there is a lot left unsaid between us. Thanks everyone!
thatone Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 so you can be honest with us, random internet strangers, but not the guy you've been sleeping in the same bed with for a ~year?
FitChick Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 Send him some flowers or a pizza or a basket of muffins.
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted February 8, 2012 Author Posted February 8, 2012 He's a guy I met online dating a year ago and we have been on and off due to his work/lifestyle. It's complicated. He's not being very responsive and I'm not one to bug a person. Just feeling like there are things left unsaid and I'm not sure if putting it down on paper is really the best way to get through to a man.
veggirl Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 He's a guy I met online dating a year ago and we have been on and off due to his work/lifestyle. It's complicated. He's not being very responsive and I'm not one to bug a person. Just feeling like there are things left unsaid and I'm not sure if putting it down on paper is really the best way to get through to a man. No, don't write him a letter. Apologize once (preferably in person, if not phone is okay, even text if you keep it short and to the point) and then let it go. That's all you can do. The rest is up to him to forgive you or not. A letter screams "drama" and is a really bad idea. Only apologize once! If he says "it's cool" or whatever, then take it that and drop it all. Honestly on and off for a year, he is probably neutral about your relationship anyway. So don't worry about it too much.
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted February 8, 2012 Author Posted February 8, 2012 Thanks veggirl...we have crazy circumstances so it's not the norm. But you are right. Apologize and be done with it.
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