Gypsie Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 I was talking to a friend about moving out with her and sharing. Recently I have changed my mind. I feel bad about it. But feel that staying where I am is the best thing for me to do right now. I told her about it and she full flipped out. Made me feel like I did not have a choice in the matter. I offered to help her look for places (she can afford to live on her own) and if she needed help with anything else. All through out the conversation it was all her, her, her. It sounded so selfish. Even when we were looking at places together before I changed my mind she knocked back most of where I wanted to live and just pretty much went for what she wanted. Did not even consider the fact that I want to be close to a Train Station living in the City without a car. She has a car so she don't need to worry about it. Plus she was looking for places over my budget. There is only a certain amount I can spend sharing. People share with the price I am paying alone. I love living alone and live in a good area in the City. Close to work as well. Don't want to pay over what I am currently paying when I am perfectly happy where I am. The whole point of us moving was so that we could save extra money. But if it is over my budget. There is not much of a point. How do I get out of this? I tried explaining with her my side of things and all I got was her trying to change my mind and not listening to anything I said. Sigh. Feel like if I say no this is going to ruin our friendship and I will loose a friend.
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