eggy Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Yulp...I fell victim to the PRETTY bartender! It's been about 1.5 year since my fiancee broke it off with me. I've moved to a new city, new job, and got my own place. Things starting to feel right again and feels like I should start dating now (I'm ready). The ex still lingers here and there but not as bad as before. So back to the bartender...DAMM shes soo pretty and I cannot get her out of my head. I don't usually go ga ga over a girl but man I keep on thinking about this girl. I'm sure she gets hit on everyday from all kinds of guys/girls. I say that because few have told me shes gay/bi. Way to pick em right? First time I think about dating and I go for the hot lesbian/bi girl. I'm probably barking up the wrong tree and odds are really against me but its nice to daydream.
Shaun-Dro Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Yulp...I fell victim to the PRETTY bartender! It's been about 1.5 year since my fiancee broke it off with me. I've moved to a new city, new job, and got my own place. Things starting to feel right again and feels like I should start dating now (I'm ready). The ex still lingers here and there but not as bad as before. So back to the bartender...DAMM shes soo pretty and I cannot get her out of my head. I don't usually go ga ga over a girl but man I keep on thinking about this girl. I'm sure she gets hit on everyday from all kinds of guys/girls. I say that because few have told me shes gay/bi. Way to pick em right? First time I think about dating and I go for the hot lesbian/bi girl. I'm probably barking up the wrong tree and odds are really against me but its nice to daydream. If she's bisexual then she's definitely useless to you, however if you only want to "bed" her, then let her know quickly in no uncertain terms.
SJC2008 Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Watch Chasing Amy if you haven't seen it. It's romantic comedy from 97' starring Ben Afleck about a man who falls for a lesbian. It's a low budget film but is pretty dam good. If you have heard of Jay and Silent Bob, it was written by the man who plays Silent Bob.
RonChalant Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 The best way to book a bartender in to become a regular (not creepily) and build some rapport with her. Bartenders get hit on so damn often that you have to come with something different in order to get noticed. That or be extremely sexy lol. It's not impossible but is going to take some work...personally you don't want to "date" a bartender because of the fact that EVERYONE is trying to talk to her. Bartenders are usually sexy because this is how they trick men into giving them large tips in hopes that it will somehow get them in bed together. Some women are better left as eye candy, but still...build some rapport with her and at the very least you can have some fun flirting with her.
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