perfectlyflawed459 Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Hello LoverShackers, I feel like it is about time that I finally leave this website and go and live my life to the fullest. I am now in a better place and can finally put everything that happened with my ex to rest and truly move on with my life and be happy. I do not know if him and I will ever be on civil terms, but it is not something that is going to bother me anymore. I wish him nothing but the best with his life and wish no ill will towards him despite his dislike towards me at the moment. All I know is that I have a great life and that I have so many things and people to be thankful for. I am so so SO thankful to everyone on this site for helping me finally pull through this rough time in my life. You guys have truly been a blessing to me and I will never ever forget the hospitality that was given to me. Thanks to you guys, I have learned many life lessons and matured from this dark time in my life. I feel so positive, the most positive that I have ever felt, and now I can move forward into the bright future ahead of me a wiser, more graceful woman. Perhaps I will be back someday just to give an update on how things are, hopefully I will have a new person in my life and be closer to achieving my goals of becoming a Pharmacist. Regardless if I come back or not, I know things can only go up from here and I wish everyone here the absolute best in their life and on their roads to recovery. To whoever is hurting right now, know that you will survive from this dark time and never forget that you are a beautiful person who is worth so much. Thank you so much LoveShack, for everything. Sayonara -Perfectlyflawed459
Frank13 Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 So you are dumping us???? Just kidding. Have a great life. You deserve it. We will miss you!
Pens55 Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Great to see someone heal and move on happily! There are success stories! Take care and hope you find exactly what you deserve!
moosekaka Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Thank you for your advice and support, hopefully when you do come back we will only have good things to tell about each other. All the best.
stitch702 Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Payce!!!!!!! Have a good one, enjoy what is out therez!!!!!
esteem-jam Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 I dont remember much from your posts, just that that you had no anger towards your ex and wished him well in whatever outcome. Have luck in your life, dont put heavy expectations on yourself, remember its alright to fall, and you can come back here in case whatever happens or not.
shayla Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 I appreciate your well thought out advice and the support you've given to others. I am glad to have been a witness to your continued healing. Congratulations and enjoy your new life.
Buttercup84 Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 I am going to miss you !! I am so thankful for your advice and being there for me . I wish you all the best ! xxxx
radiodarcy Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 goodbye, PerfectlyFlawed! thank you for all of your advice and support! you will be missed around here but we are all happy for you and hope you find the happiness your deserve!
ffw Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 Going to miss you PF459. Good luck with everything. A great future is waiting for you ahead.
Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 Oh goodness, thank you guys so much for the nice wishes I will definitely come back every now and then to give updates and some advice if possible! Well here is an update: Life is AMAZING right now I don't know if I had told you guys that I sent my ex's sister a message saying I couldn't stay in contact with her because I didn't want to cause more drama. Honestly, that hurt me more than that message my ex sent me because his sister looked up to me as her older sister and always came to me for guidance so it broke my heart to tell her all that. So for the past week I have been avoiding his family and I even deleted his sister off Facebook...but yesterday his sister texted me saying she couldn't not have me in her life and that she missed me so much and missed talking to me. So I agreed to remain in contact with her and she said she was sorry for how her brother acted and that I never deserved that treatment. She also called him the immature one! So I feel a little more at peace now that I do not have to shun them completely because I will admit, it did bother me a little to shun them. I am definitely going to keep my distance, but I am glad I am on speaking terms with them still. Also! I have a study "date" Monday with a really cute guy in my Calculus 2 class He is buying me lunch and everything! So yay! I could not be more excited to go and study for a major Calculus exam haha Hope everyone is doing well and getting better! Like I said, I will be back every now and then just to come and give updates. See ya'll later!!!!!
Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted February 10, 2012 Author Posted February 10, 2012 So you are dumping us???? Just kidding. Have a great life. You deserve it. We will miss you! Haha oh you know, I have GIGS You should probably go NC I will realize what I had
Dust Posted February 10, 2012 Posted February 10, 2012 I'm glad things are going great for you! You know if I lived out where you do or was an LS user like FeelinFrisky I'd be comming for you girl! I see Somedude81 makeing a thread like this soon.
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