SJC2008 Posted February 6, 2012 Posted February 6, 2012 First of all I'm not sypathy fishing,I'm a man and I'll get over it. Finally got to a second date and a possible third. Texted the woman I'm dating good night and I'll call you tomorrow after a few mins of small talk texting. She replies "Ok.Thanks for sweeping me off my feet". At first I laughed and then started to think about it. We have only been out twice and haven't even kissed so I took it as sarcasm. To try to get clafification I said "You seem like a nice young women so I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you were joking" She replied: "I'm not Joking". I was confused and thought she was dropping hints that I wasn't getting the job done. In my defense who tells a man that after two dates and is serious, and remember the bad luck I had so I took it in a bad way I'll admit. I responded "All I said was good night. I want to get to know you but if you don't feel it just be honest about how you feel, I won't be mad". She replied:"where did that come from?". I said "I thought you were being sarcastic and when I asked if you were joking you said no, we're still learning eachothers style and I'm embarrased and didn't want to hurt your feelings. Please accept my apology from the bottom of my heart, I definately want to get to know you better" She replied "You say you are interested but don't act like it". I responded "I have told you you are pretty, held your hand and had my arm around you. Lets chalk it up as an awkward moment and we'll llaugh about it the next time we see eachother". No response...... All in all I hope I did not hurt her feelings. I did text her again and told her whatever she decides it was nice to meet her and good luck to her. I think she either 1) Baited me in to make it seem like I ended it. 2) Was just flirting and I'm a total duche and a moron. 3) Was willing to date but was trying to hint that it's time for me to make a move. This is 99% over but how could I have handled it better for future purposes.
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