FitChick Posted February 7, 2012 Posted February 7, 2012 (edited) No one would ever mistake the men I date for my son. Even though younger than I, they generally have more wrinkles and gray hair than I do, thank God. They are divorced and usually have kids which tends to age people. Men who are young enough to be my son flirt with me, but I don't take them seriously. The oldest men I've dated were no more than 9 years older and they seemed much older than that in their attitudes and manner compared to me. Edited February 7, 2012 by FitChick
Emilia Posted February 8, 2012 Posted February 8, 2012 I think it depends on the person and where you are in your life. I'm 38, I wouldn't be opposed to dating a man who's 48 - but 50+? No thanks. And at 48 he better be all working...if you know what I mean. [.........] I try not to look at age these days. However, the problem with dating men my age and 40+ is the baggage. Kid, ex-wife (or more then one), debt from marriages, etc. That's why I normally date younger men. Current man is 33. But the problem with that is the lack of wanting to commit, possibly wanting kids, settling down with a family - things I can't give him. Overall...I'm in a bad spot so I do the best I can and grab the young ass while I'm still able to. I could have typed this up word for word, especially the bolded part
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