Wings Of Love Posted February 6, 2012 Posted February 6, 2012 Yes, 3 years ago today he left me. I'm not sure why I'm posting here. I'm in a much better place than I was back then, I finally feel I can say I've moved on. I no longer have any desire to break NC, and my heart doesn't jump out of my chest at the mere mention of him anymore. I believe I'm strong enough now to keep my head held high should I ever see him again. But I can't help feeling...almost nostalgic. I'm certain this will pass once this day is over, but I suppose I just need to be here, where people will understand me. In a way, I do miss him. I have not forgotten the negative side to what we had though. Mostly I just want this day to be over with, the residual emotion isn't pleasant. Anyone else ever have similar feelings years after the break up? I'm hoping it's natural to feel some level of emotion even now, because of what this date represents in my mind.
Philosoraptor Posted February 6, 2012 Posted February 6, 2012 Well it's been 3 years, but that shouldn't matter. I wont say that it isn't common, but it shouldn't matter. What have you been doing for yourself in these past years? What have you done to help yourself fly on your Wings Of Love?
Ajax Posted February 6, 2012 Posted February 6, 2012 I think it's normal to be nostalgic at times. Certain times of the year or specific dates and anniversaries of events tend to stir up feelings. It's human. While I consider myself over my ex and having moved on, I'm sure that when April 27th rolls around I'll be a bit nostalgic for the anniversary of our first date. I don't think of her nearly as often as I used to, but when I do I usually just say a short prayer that she's happy. Sometimes I take it a step further and pray that one day we'll both be able to look back on our time together and see how we're better for it, even if we never speak again. Then I let the thought pass and go about my business. Don't beat yourself up or think you're wrong for having these memories. It's just the way people are.
CaliBabe Posted February 6, 2012 Posted February 6, 2012 I think its tottally normal to be nostalgic, I mean this is someone you once loved and spent alot of your time with. I think your right, after the day passes, you'll be okay with it.
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