mittk Posted February 5, 2012 Posted February 5, 2012 My ex broke up with me because she wasn't ready for a relationship but said she would like to remain friends. Once I got over it (and I truly am fine with it), we started communicating and have stayed in touch since (it's been a few weeks). We have been talking almost every day, mostly by text, and she been very responsive, friendly and polite. She even asked for advice, and we have maintained a friendly tone. We do get along very well. I would say I initiate most of the communication (though she has done so too) - but she always responds fairly quickly. I know it may sound as though I am holding onto something, but I really think she is a great friend would like to keep her as such. My concern is, is she being very friendly because she truly wants us to be friends, or is she just doing it out of politeness to not hurt my feelings again? I don't know whether I should address this friendship with her and tell her I am truly comfortable with us being friends but I want her to be ok with it too. I am only wary of having a 'friendship' or 'relationship' talk with her only because I don't want to annoy her with things she does not want to discuss. So, should I be quiet and see if she continues with the friendship or actually bring this up?
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