dois20 Posted February 5, 2012 Posted February 5, 2012 We found out that we both liked each other about a week before I left. We spent an amazing week, seeing each other every day. The day I left she cried and it was pretty obvious that we started something pretty serious. I left for half a year. For the week after I left we emailed every day, i'd write to her at night and then wake up to find an answer, religiously. Then I got busy and skipped a day and then she skipped a day, then she skipped two, then three and then i didn't hear from her for a week. I will write to her on monday and get an answer on friday. I asked her why, she said that she's been really busy. Now its the same, her letters get less and less personal, shorter and she never says she misses me or anything anymore. I'm not saying that she should since we both agreed that we won't actually do the long distance dating thing, only when I get back, but still it seems weird that she's getting less and less personal after a start like that. Now, Im not sure but I think she may have started seeing some other guy (courtesy of facebook) although I may be totally wrong since its the virtual world and you can't judge anything by its cover. What should I do, valentines day is coming up and I think I should send her a card? Or should I not, she said she's going to send me one (albeit when I left). Times like these I just want to stop all contact with her since I know I can't fight for her from halfway across the world, on the other hand I feel like i shouldn't give up since I don't really know whats going on, and also, shes a friend of two years who i don't want to lose. What should I do?
Philosoraptor Posted February 6, 2012 Posted February 6, 2012 If you decided you liked each other just a week before you left I'd find it hard to believe that most would be able to hang on for an extended period of time. I'm not saying this is what happened, but I'd assume because you were not there physically that she has been trying to let go slowly by responding later and later. It's not the most mature route to drop someone, but a popular route nonetheless.
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