ajf123 Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 Last night my b/f of the last 9 months came over to finish things because he feels cannot commit to a relationship because he is scared that things will end up like his unhappy marriage. He's formed the conclusion that he will never be able to have a relationship again and will remain on his own for the rest of his days. I tried to suggest we take a break, and not make such hasty decisions, but he insists there is no point. To me this has come out of the blue. We don't live together though in my opinion the last few months have become a bit of a routine - which we both agreed on. That said he's never let me down, we've never argued and by his admission too its been really enjoyable. He was in floods of tears and says he really cares for me, but he won't listen when I say I'm not his ex and its unfair to judge me as such. We parted with a hug, lots of tears and he tried to kiss me. But is there any point in holding out any hope that he'll come to his senses and realise that not everyone is the same?
Philosoraptor Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 He is either lost emotionally and was not truly ready to start something or too afraid to bring up the true issues and is trying to spare your feelings.
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