insertnamehere Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 Her house, her rules. I raised my niece and she had the exact same objection to the exact same rule. To put it simply, by the time she was 19 she got a job and moved out. Consider it an incentive to GTFO.
kaylan Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 Man, what kind of backwards ass country is the US in some parts? You're 22 and she wants you to leave the door open? I lived in my ex-boyfriend's apartment when I was 17 and his mother did not tell us to close the door, instead she was a really nice lady and always made us food. :lol: Its not the US as a whole. It depends on the parent. Ive known parents who didnt take issue with is. Mine just always happened to be the opposite. Plus your situation is different. You were actually living there, so you knew them well enough. Its different when its someone the family is still just getting to know.
Philosoraptor Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 Have a car and a dark parking lot? It's not ideal but it works.
make me believe Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 Then there's his house.. that usually works but the door doesn't lock, and sometimes I hear people right outside the door and I get so paranoid so I don't think I want to do that anymore either. I think I would be cool doing anything while we are alone in the house, and at places outside the house. I don't want to not have sex, I just don't want to live in fear and paranoia. Lol Yeah, that sounds totally unsexy! My husband and I have had sex while his parents were at our place visiting from out of town, and it was kinda hot feeling like we were "sneaking around" and having to be quiet, BUT 1) we're married, 2) it was at our house not theirs, 3) the door was locked, and 4) -- most importantly -- we knew they were sound asleep. I would be mortified trying to do it while they were awake and roaming around the house! In your situation I think it's a good idea to just try to have sex when no one is home, or outside of the house. Find a secluded spot and do it in the car, or try to get a hotel room every once in awhile (even if you can't stay over night.. it might seem like a waste of money but if you stay as long as possible & make good use of the room and amenities it might be worth it!)
Emilia Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 OP, why don't you move into a houseshare with other people? Surely the answer is to get independent as soon as possible so you can do what you like?
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