singlelife Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 I know there are a lot of dudes who complain about girls being hard to get and game playing so here's a success story. A girl I was talking to around Christmas basically told me she wasn't interested so I left her alone. She kept texting me saying Merry Christmas and Happy New years. Usually I would have told her to f**k off and quit texting because I wasn't looking for another friend but a person to have fun with. But since it was the holidays I just replied with happy stuff. Then we had no contact until last week and she was flirting hard and rubbing my head and giving me hugs. Then she said she has just been busy and didn't mean any harm and she didn't remember saying she wasn't interested (bs) so we just started fresh. Since then I texted her a few days ago and she just responded today saying how busy she has been and sharing how she really really wants to get with me and have fun. I didn't have time to even respond and she texted me 3 times to make sure I got it. So I just responded let's meet up soon. So the point is sometimes it may seem like the girl doesn't like you but it seems women just have to go through this process before they can feel comfortable. Idk everything but that's how it seems. So don't give up to soon fellows.
Author singlelife Posted February 2, 2012 Author Posted February 2, 2012 Well she has left me two messages on fb with heart since I last posted. So I would think she's into me
Oxy Moronovich Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 Any woman who plays games isn't LTR material. I agree with not giving up soon. But you also make sure to start looking elsewhere.
silvermercy Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 Sounds like game playing, but I wish you luck.
ditzchic Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 Sounds like she is bored and in a dry spell. Girls that play games like this aren't worth your time. I wouldn't expect anything long term but enjoy your couple weeks of fun.
poodle Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 To me it sounds like she couldn't handle you taking being rejected so well. Maybe she expected you to pursue her more instead of leaving her alone. Either way, as other users have mentioned, she's playing games so don't get too attached to her.
Frank13 Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 I agree with the others. You are making it sound like you got her when all you got were some texts. You haven't even met up with her. Did she even reply to your text telling her "let's meet up soon?". To me, this has disaster written all over it.
veggirl Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 OP. Doesn't sound like you "got" her at all. Sounds like she sure got you though. Esp when she is STILL telling you "I am too busy" LOL. Have you guys even gotten together? A girl who likes you will make time to ACTUALLY get together, not give you BS lines. Sorry. I'd date others.
phineas Posted February 3, 2012 Posted February 3, 2012 To me it sounds like she couldn't handle you taking being rejected so well. Maybe she expected you to pursue her more instead of leaving her alone. Either way, as other users have mentioned, she's playing games so don't get too attached to her. I'd say this. Something about a woman that comes on strong then as soon as you respond she puts on the brakes or gets "busy" just turns me off & smacks of game playing. Think back to women that you actually dated. They wanted to nail down a date to see ASAP. That is what women who are into you do. They don't tell you they are "busy" they tell you that you can pick them up at 7.
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