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is it better to stay on invisible/hide on chat/communcation for the moment?

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maylis Established Member

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I am not ready to delete him so I have been on hiding. I don't feel the urge to talk to him but I want to know that he is there. Is it better to stay on hiding so he can't see I am there?

 

What do you guys do?

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Why? All you'll be doing is prolonging your pain, seeing him live his life whilst yours is skipping you by. He doesn't know you're there so the only one affected by this is you. If you can really stomach seeing him meet others, date again and everything else then fair enough, but don't expect to heal in any way whilst you're still so attached to his life.

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maylis Established Member

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Why? All you'll be doing is prolonging your pain, seeing him live his life whilst yours is skipping you by. He doesn't know you're there so the only one affected by this is you. If you can really stomach seeing him meet others, date again and everything else then fair enough, but don't expect to heal in any way whilst you're still so attached to his life.

 

 

I don't have him on facebook, its just a IM chat thing

flitzanu Established Member

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so you want to log in chat and stay hidden, just so you can see his name listed in your friends? i don't even know how this makes any sense at all.

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so you want to log in chat and stay hidden, just so you can see his name listed in your friends? i don't even know how this makes any sense at all.

 

Stay hidden so he can't see me because maybe that is better. I don't know how to explain it well I guess

flitzanu Established Member

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Stay hidden so he can't see me because maybe that is better. I don't know how to explain it well I guess

 

what you're saying is, you want to stay invisible and hope that he tries to send you a message wondering if you're actually there. you're trying to remain available in every possible way for him to contact you.

 

right?

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what you're saying is, you want to stay invisible and hope that he tries to send you a message wondering if you're actually there. you're trying to remain available in every possible way for him to contact you.

 

right?

 

 

So it is better to just stay invisible rather than being visible for him to see me, because I can still message other people if I want to talk to them when I am invisible.

flitzanu Established Member

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So it is better to just stay invisible rather than being visible for him to see me, because I can still message other people if I want to talk to them when I am invisible.

 

again, why are you not deleting him?

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again, why are you not deleting him?

 

 

Ok, today I deleted him, but I didn't block him.

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