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I am sometimes having a hard time to accept the changes in my life.

Change of friends.

Thinking about getting married with my boyfriend.

Changing job.

Changing house.

It's kind of transition time.

Ending up with my mourning period of mommy. Starting to feel well.

And, although it is all good.

It's kind of "different" to have all this changes in mind.

I see my ex boyfriends, lovers having girlfriends.

People getting settled down, I am thinking of settling down.

And though these are great things. It's exciting to accept them, but at the same time. I feel it's a little tough. Times that go and that are not coming back.

Sometimes I am hanging out with my boyfriend, we've been going out like a year and four months now, and... I see things are getting all serious and stuff. I see myself in his family and I see him in my family and although it's amazing.. I also see myself living with my father and my sister and I get the blues. My sister is growing old and my father is well, widow.. I speak spanish, sometimes I don't know if I explain myself correctly so, sorry if my grammar or spelling is not right.

My culture here is.. living with the family until you get married, and then become independent. So,

Good changes, good changes.. but sometimes hard to digest. It's transition time. Exciting, fun, but also nostalgic.

How do you deal with these transition times?

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Good post. Kinda sums up where I am headed too. I've been feeling nostalgic recently. Missing her - It's her birthday soon. That'll be hard!

 

I don't think there is any clever way of dealing. I just try to remember the expression 'This too shall pass' and it shall.

 

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I loved your quote, very helpful, thanks

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