Glove_slap Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 First/most painful break up story that is.
Surf Rider Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 First/most painful break up story that is. I'll try to make this short and sweet. I have other threads like this. I dated this girl for a little over a year. She decided she didn't want to be with me anymore for what reason I will never know. The interesting part is that she got her mom, not her to break up for her. She made up a lame excuse that her parents didn't want her to be in a relationship which I know is a lie because it wasn't more than a month or 2 later that she was dating again. I will never forget the last night she said goodbye to me. It was the 2nd worst day of my life and it took me a year to get over her. It has now been 2 years since she dumped me and I have not spoken a word to her in a year and we go to the same school. I am doing better now though This wasn't short and sweet but oh well!!
JohnP82 Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 (edited) Short and sweet is the theme: Dated a girl for about a year, but had known her for about 10 years. She moved to start grad school about 90 miles away. I tell her I love her. She then begins to breach boundaries, hanging out with a "friend" a lot, and apparently starting an emotional affair with the guy. I notice a change in her behavior and confront her. She says she doesn't have time for being in a relationship and do school so we break up. Not too long after she's dating the "friend." After her betrayal I will likely never speak to her again. Good times:rolleyes: Edited February 1, 2012 by JohnP82
Sugarkane Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 Damn was hoping my story would beat these ^^^
smudge21 Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 Not counting the reason I came here, but two previous relationships/addictions (whatever you want to call them) including my first true love at 19 when I first realised what love is and how it could make you feel so good one minute and so crushed the next. She sadly had a child by an ex who of course still came round to see her and the kid, which would often lead to him using his fists on her as a way to win her back. Yeah, for a 19 year old it was a lot to deal with and the hardest part was when she chose him over me. I was left with the sadness of losing someone I loved and the fear of knowing how her life would turn out. Took a long time to get away from that one, but luckily it was before Facebook so I never got to see anything of her once it ended. Second was about ten years ago now (maybe less) and I worked with her. We hit it off so well but she changed quickly (or was it, she changed for me but then went back to her old self once she got what she wanted). Started going out a lot and coming home late (her home, we didn't live together). It was by pure accident that she sent a message to a friend of hers and I saw it, all about some guy she'd met and wished she'd used protection. I just totally shut down and stopped talking to her as of course, I wasn't supposed to know this. She eventually talked to me and we had it out, lots of apologies and seemed to be okay (my one and only time of taking someone back), but then a week later, she did the same thing with another stranger. When I questioned her about, and reminded her how she'd promised it wouldn't happen again she made light of it. I still remember the exact words to this day: me - "so were you lying to me before about never doing that again?" her - "yeah I guess I was". That was it, but due to work and stuff I had to endure many more months of seeing her around and that put my off dating for a good many years.
RecordProducer Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 (edited) When my first husband left me, I had just come from the hospital after giving birth to our twins. They were only three weeks old. I was madly in love with him. I honestly thought "This can't be happening, no, this is not happening to me." He came back a week or so later, but kept leaving and coming back in the next two years - until we finally split for good. That divorce turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. Three years later I met my second husband and moved to the US - which had always been my dream. That marriage started to fall apart soon too and the break up was very long and painful, but not as horrific as the first one because this time I was in my dream country, starting law school (another dream come true). As sad as I was for years about the breakup, deep down I knew that this guy who was almost two decades older than me did me a favor for dumping me because he's screwed up and never appreciated my love. I feel happy today being where I am; I've lived, loved, achieved something, raised my kids - and I am still young (mid-30s). I still have a career to build, a true love to meet and a lot more in life, God willing. I haven't felt this good in a long time! Heck, I haven't loved myself in a long time. Edited February 1, 2012 by RecordProducer
Frank13 Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 I will never forget the last night she said goodbye to me. It was the 2nd worst day of my life and it took me a year to get over her. I am curious, what was the 1st worse day of your life, if you want to say. If not, I understand.
Philosoraptor Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 Being unconditionaly in love with someone who could only love conditionally. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3800331&postcount=31
Surf Rider Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 I am curious, what was the 1st worse day of your life, if you want to say. If not, I understand. I would rather not say. It's very personal.
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