kaylan Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 (edited) So heres the latest from my current series of positive threads. Whats the thing you like most when you are dating someone? It can be a moment, situation, feeling, I dunno...you get what I mean. You can only pick one thing though. Aaannnnnddd GO! Edited January 31, 2012 by kaylan
ditzchic Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Good morning text messages. With a kissy face
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 When he kisses you, and holds your face, like your the most precious thing in the world. Tenderness is terribly underated in our culture of "hardcore" everything. 1
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 He takes you to a crowded lounge/bar. When you enter, he helps you take off your coat, and then carries it for you. He leads you by the hand through the crowd to a couple bar stools, pulling it out for you, and guiding you on to the seat by the small of your back. He orders drinks and quickly puts down his card for the tab so that there's no awkward "who's paying" moment at the end of the evening. You spend the next 4-5 hours talking and sharing and laughing, never a dull moment, even periods of silence are met with sweet gazes and smiles. You enjoy each other's company so much that you forget there are tons of other people in the room, and don't even notice the time until the barback is putting up the barstools next to you. He drives/walks you home/to your car, and you share a long, passionate but sweet kiss. By the time you get home, you have a text or email from him saying that he can't wait to see you again... That's what I love about dating.
Author kaylan Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 ^I said one thing lol. That was many things.
jobaba Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Good morning text messages. With a kissy face That's good. The feeling of being cared about. There's a lot of 'em. One for me would be cooking dinner together, then sitting down and watching a good movie on DVD. Cooking is a fun thing to do where you can still carry on a fun conversation but not be totally immersed in it. Fun activity that both of you can be involved in. And you get to eat it!
jobaba Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Are we talking about dating or relationships? Relationships are good. Dating blows ...
Author kaylan Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 ^Id say we are talking about both I guess. Anyways my fave will always be that deep swelling feeling that I get in my chest when Im holding the girl I care about. It usually makes my heart speed up a little, and then I let out a sigh. Sounds like anxiety doesnt it? haha But thats my test to see if I really want to be with someone. If I get that feeling, then I know shes the only girl I want.
Saxis Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 But thats my test to see if I really want to be with someone. If I get that feeling, then I know shes the only girl I want. That really is the best! And hard to put into words... Those moments when you get lost in her; completely consumed. It feels like the rest of your world could fade away and you'd never even notice, like an overwhelming contentment. That vulnerability scares the crap out of me, but I'm a sucker for it...
Els Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 When we're lying beside each other in bed, arms around each other and my head on his shoulder. Listening to his heart beat, and breathing in his subtle scent, and feeling his slightly rough fingers stroke my back.
thatone Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 When he kisses you, and holds your face, like your the most precious thing in the world. Tenderness is terribly underated in our culture of "hardcore" everything. i'm a serial face toucher/holder. you're not the only one enjoying that. 1
spookie Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 How much money I save staying in to watch tv all the time.
skelterhelter Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 That feeling when he holds me (in bed, in the car, at the movies...whereever) and I just feel so safe, so secure. Like he's my protector and will make everything right in the world. Nothing beats that feeling
Tybalt Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 The memory etched in my mind of that "certain" look... When his eyes grow soft and he smiles in that intriguing way, like a Mona Lisa, yet I know exactly what it means.
RecordProducer Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 My fav thing is always the goodbye when after we kiss I think "Next!" Seriously, though, the best feeling about any exciting hookup to me is when I am left alone with my thoughts and I can relax and think about him.
RecordProducer Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 The memory etched in my mind of that "certain" look... When his eyes grow soft and he smiles in that intriguing way, like a Mona Lisa, yet I know exactly what it means. He is thinking "I love Tybalt's lips when she's smiling - I wonder what they'd look like around my dick... I'm ordering her another drink."
SmileFace Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 Laying on his chest with my hand placed over his heart listening to the sweet rhythm. Or random texts/calls/voicemails to let me know he may be out of reach for a while.
RecordProducer Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 Laying on his chest with my hand placed over his heart listening to the sweet rhythm. It's not so hard to please your cardiovascular fetish since every one of them has a beating heart! Or random texts/calls/voicemails to let me know he may be out of reach for a while. She likes when a guy is out of reach and texting her to deliver the good news.
Els Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 It's not so hard to please your cardiovascular fetish since every one of them has a beating heart! She likes when a guy is out of reach and texting her to deliver the good news. What's with the cynicism?
SmileFace Posted February 2, 2012 Posted February 2, 2012 What's with the cynicism? He is practicing active listening obviously. Lol
RecordProducer Posted February 5, 2012 Posted February 5, 2012 What's with the cynicism? What's with you getting defensive about innocent jokes that weren't even addressed to you?
Author kaylan Posted February 5, 2012 Author Posted February 5, 2012 Now, now....positive thread...remember =/
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