ajf123 Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I'll try and keep this short. I've been seeing a guy since last May and its been great, its all been really easy and happy. He's in his forties and before he met me he'd separated from his wife of 13 years and her grown up sons (who he'd more or less brought up). He moved out of the home but in November he brought her share of the house and he moved back in after she'd moved out. He doesn't speak much about his feelings, but he's been giving the impression he's happy to be back there. Only a week ago we'd booked a holiday in May and to go away with his family in Easter, so I felt things were good. It was his birthday last week and we celebrated with his parents, and he went out with his mates last Friday. When I saw him on Saturday he was very hungover and mentioned he'd seen one of his step-sons while he was out. He hasn't really said anymore about it. Sunday was an average day, but he started acting strangely, very up and down, and snapping at me. I didn't see him yesterday and today I received an email from him saying that he's not happy and needs time alone, and hopes I don't mind! I am completely confused. Is it me or something I've done? Do I assume the worst and prepare myself for this to finish, or am I overreacting? I'm so confused because its like something has flipped! I'd appreciate any advice.
Philosoraptor Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 The real question is what do you want out of a partner? Do you want someone who can share these types of feelings with you or does it not matter? How long have they been separated? From the way he is getting due to these issues it does not seem that he has fully healed and may be prone to these types of issues until he does fully heal.
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