ascendotum Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Even if he did, it's VEGAS. Do you have any idea the type of people some people wake up to the next morning? Catching strange in Vegas is NOT hard, and doesn't really take a whole lot of talent. That's not knocking on Hokie or anyone else, it's just the fact of what goes down in Vegas. Yeah really? Might change my vacation then. Its adios buenos aires, hello vegas.
jobaba Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 ...and they were laughing and having a good time...and by the end of the night, it was fairly obvious that both girls were more interested in me than him... I somehow got most of the attention, and for the first time, my friend ended up as 4th wheel...and even he knew what had happened when we talked the morning after...it was eye-opening... When I saw the mention of "scoring" I had to go back and read Hokie's post to see if I missed anything. Don't see how anyone was mislead by any of his posts. This right here. To me, that translates to... The girls went with me and my buddy passed out in our room. I went back to the room the 2 girls had. I had turns having sex with them both for 3 hours and then we passed out from exhaustion. They gave me their info and I told them I'd call them. Went back to my room, saw my buddy, and he knew 'exactly what had happened'. Can't a guy have his fantasy?
jobaba Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Yeah really? Might change my vacation then. Its adios buenos aires, hello vegas. Vegas is NOT easy. I repeat ... NOT EASY. Women fly in from all over the country and get all dolled up. You think they're going to do all that to go back to the room with some mediocre looking dude? You're lucky if you have a conversation that has 2 meaningful sentences with a woman in Vegas. Yea, guys get laid there. It's the same guys who can get laid everywhere else. Paying for it is different of course...
Imajerk17 Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 (edited) Don't forget ES's BFF, with the ever-changing names/new identities. Meh, that's just 3 people, out of all of LS. And if you notice the common denominator, it's that I just really have no tolerance for bullsh*t, half-truths, and failing to acknowledge any responsibility. As an aside, RE Eternal Sunshine, one_goal, and the other "crazies" on here... This forum is the way it is and that's the way it is. ES is always going to have her enablers, cheerleaders, and therapists (male and female) that are going to get sucked up in her drama and her threads will have 300+ posts. Similar to one_goal. He's basically a creep but whenever he posts a thread there are people who keep giving him advice, and his threads will get to 5+ pages too. While some great questions on here won't get very much attention too. Everyone would be better off IMO if both ES, one_goal, and a few others were just ignored, but given the tendencies of people here, they won't be. Expecting them to do so is like expecting it not to rain, and getting involved with it is wasted energy. It is what it is. Edited January 31, 2012 by Imajerk17
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Yes I hate BS too, and I've come down hard on a few people. But you realize that this didn't serve you, right? I mean, people who've been here a while know that you and Hokie were involved and most people would see that he had some major confidence issues that led to "it" not working out, and that meanwhile you've moved on and dated several other people (or so it appears at least). By coming down so hard on him on here though, you made him look to be the sympathetic figure, and you look like the angry insecure one who hasn't really moved on. If you really want to be done with him, you could just not give him any attention you know. I wasn't trying to "serve" anything. The only purpose I had was to let HOKIE know that I'm on to his bullsh*t. Your first paragraph is absolutely correct, although I really don't think it matters. I could care less if I'm perceived as insecure (because I'm not, and I haven't been the one crawling back each time) by a few people who aren't "in the know", but if I'm perceived as angry that would be spot on - because I am.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Yeah really? Might change my vacation then. Its adios buenos aires, hello vegas. Buenos Aires on the whole will likely have more attractive women. But if simply putting a ONS with some random woman is your thing, then Vegas is your place. Even the most unattractive, socially inept man can pull some strange there...without paying. But, I don't promise you'll like what you see in the morning!!!
somedude81 Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 This right here. To me, that translates to... The girls went with me and my buddy passed out in our room. I went back to the room the 2 girls had. I had turns having sex with them both for 3 hours and then we passed out from exhaustion. They gave me their info and I told them I'd call them. Went back to my room, saw my buddy, and he knew 'exactly what had happened'. Can't a guy have his fantasy? LOL, I thought something similar. And I think cerri did too. And she's a respectable lady.
Imajerk17 Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I wasn't trying to "serve" anything. The only purpose I had was to let HOKIE know that I'm on to his bullsh*t. Your first paragraph is absolutely correct, although I really don't think it matters. I could care less if I'm perceived as insecure (because I'm not, and I haven't been the one crawling back each time) by a few people who aren't "in the know", but if I'm perceived as angry that would be spot on - because I am. Well, suit yourself!
cerridwen Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 LOL, I thought something similar. And I think cerri did too. And she's a respectable lady. I did! And what?
johan Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 The only purpose I had was to let HOKIE know that I'm on to his bullsh*t. I assume you let him know your opinions in private. So that couldn't have been your purpose in posting on this thread. It seems like the purpose of your posts was to publicly embarrass him. Are you sure you aren't trying to bullsh*t us?
jobaba Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 But if simply putting a ONS with some random woman is your thing, then Vegas is your place. Even the most unattractive, socially inept man can pull some strange there...without paying. But, I don't promise you'll like what you see in the morning!!! That is so untrue... I don't know where you get your perceptions of Las Vegas from. The clubs there are very upscale. And the women are there to get laid, yes ... by a hot guy. If you cannot get laid at home, you will not be able to get laid in Vegas. I have been there 5 times with totally different crowds of guys. Trust me...
cerridwen Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 LOL, I thought something similar. And I think cerri did too. And she's a respectable lady. I did! And what? Oh, oh, never mind. I thought you said "a receptacle lady"
Author USMCHokie Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 We have not been on good terms for over a year. Your fault. Yep, it was my fault, and I was legitimately trying to fix that. But it fell on deaf ears. I won't make that mistake again. Thanks for that. You really are such a nice guy; such a bastion of integrity! :sarcasm: Glad to see you expose portions of the real you here on LS sometimes. This is why I deleted you, and will act as a reminder to never accept another request. As per the usual, you can always dish it, but you can never take it.
somedude81 Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Oh, oh, never mind. I thought you said "a receptacle lady" ROFL! You only see what your eyes want to see.
Author USMCHokie Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 That is so untrue... I don't know where you get your perceptions of Las Vegas from. The clubs there are very upscale. And the women are there to get laid, yes ... by a hot guy. If you cannot get laid at home, you will not be able to get laid in Vegas. I have been there 5 times with totally different crowds of guys. Trust me... Yes, they are upscale...it was actually quite repulsive, with their $50 cover charges...I even had to go to a store after getting stopped at a club entrance to buy a new pair of shoes...and then check my sneakers in at the hotel...luckily I didn't have to throw them away... From my limited experience, I don't think Vegas is as "difficult" as you make it out to be...but we'll see, I'm going to try to make it out there a bit more often.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I assume you let him know your opinions in private. So that couldn't have been your purpose in posting on this thread. It seems like the purpose of your posts was to publicly embarrass him. Are you sure you aren't trying to bullsh*t us? Which is worse? Publicly embarrassing someone amongst complete internet strangers (how do you even embarrass someone in this context??)? Or lying to, manipulating, and betraying someone you purport to care so deeply about? Eh, it doesn't matter. Have I had these convos with Hokie in private? In the distant pass, yes. As of more recently, I no longer communicate/make exchanges with Hokie in private. He reaches out to me, sends emails, messages, texts. I do not respond in substance, for this very reason. I cannot and do not trust him anymore than I could throw Rosie O'Donnell. He is literally two (if not more) different people in private versus public. I have not-so-politely told him to never contact me again, and he has not-so-politely agreed.
Author USMCHokie Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 I assume you let him know your opinions in private. So that couldn't have been your purpose in posting on this thread. It seems like the purpose of your posts was to publicly embarrass him. Are you sure you aren't trying to bullsh*t us? Yes, she made her opinions known to me in private, almost simultaneously to the opinions I became privy to via the public LS forum. In the tactical communications field, we call that "redundancy."
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 That is so untrue... I don't know where you get your perceptions of Las Vegas from. The clubs there are very upscale. And the women are there to get laid, yes ... by a hot guy. If you cannot get laid at home, you will not be able to get laid in Vegas. I have been there 5 times with totally different crowds of guys. Trust me... I don't need to trust you. My girlfriends went back to hotel rooms with guys they wouldn't even look at back home. And I've been to Vegas approximately 75 times. (It's a 3 hour drive from LA.)
jobaba Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Yes, they are upscale...it was actually quite repulsive, with their $50 cover charges...I even had to go to a store after getting stopped at a club entrance to buy a new pair of shoes...and then check my sneakers in at the hotel...luckily I didn't have to throw them away... From my limited experience, I don't think Vegas is as "difficult" as you make it out to be...but we'll see, I'm going to try to make it out there a bit more often. I didn't say it's difficult per se ... just no easier than anywhere else. Vegas is about nightclubs. Hooking up in nightclubs is about looks. If you're a guy and you ain't got em, you're not gonna hook up. Obviously it works different for women.
Author USMCHokie Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 He is literally two (if not more) different people in private versus public. I have not-so-politely told him to never contact me again, and he has not-so-politely agreed. Luckily you are just one person...not-so-nice both in public and in private. At least there's no confusion there.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Yes, she made her opinions known to me in private, almost simultaneously to the opinions I became privy to via the public LS forum. This is a lie. I did not say anything to you in private about your purported activities in Vegas or what I thought about this thread.
Author USMCHokie Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 This is a lie. I did not say anything to you in private about your purported activities in Vegas or what I thought about this thread. No, just what you thought about me; which seems to be congruent with your express opinions in this thread.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 Yep, it was my fault, and I was legitimately trying to fix that. But it fell on deaf ears. I won't make that mistake again. Legitimately tried to fix? That's pure comedy right there!!! Sending uninvited FB friend requests or "How've you been?" emails does NOT equal efforts to repay a BETRAYAL OF CONFIDENCE. You have NO CLUE how to rebuilt lost trust. Not a clue. As per the usual, you can always dish it, but you can never take it. I expect to get back exactly what give. But when it comes to you, I expect even lower blows...and I usually get them.
Author USMCHokie Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 I could care less if I'm perceived as insecure (because I'm not, and I haven't been the one crawling back each time) by a few people who aren't "in the know", but if I'm perceived as angry that would be spot on - because I am. I'm not so sure about this one...because you sure do go to great lengths, in this thread and many others, to constantly remind everyone of what you are and what you aren't under the guise of "not caring."
Imajerk17 Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 (edited) Which is worse? Publicly embarrassing someone amongst complete internet strangers (how do you even embarrass someone in this context??)? Or lying to, manipulating, and betraying someone you purport to care so deeply about? Eh, it doesn't matter. Have I had these convos with Hokie in private? In the distant pass, yes. As of more recently, I no longer communicate/make exchanges with Hokie in private. He reaches out to me, sends emails, messages, texts. I do not respond in substance, for this very reason. I cannot and do not trust him anymore than I could throw Rosie O'Donnell. He is literally two (if not more) different people in private versus public. I have not-so-politely told him to never contact me again, and he has not-so-politely agreed. This just doesn't add up. Sorry, but I don't think ANYONE believes this, because evidence says the opposite. Shoot, every time Hokie posts here about his issues, you are the one who seems to be the one reaching out, trying to "help" him. YOU are the one who seems obsessed. I still have no idea what you were trying to accomplish by getting involved here. Anyone else here get it? Edited January 31, 2012 by Imajerk17
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