Necromancer Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 I would love to hear 1/2 advice from every guy here about girls.... what they wish they´d known when they where in high school!.
USMCHokie Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 Message to myself; They only like tall, white dudes. Wait til after college.
Philosoraptor Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 That each woman has her own persepctive of things. And that one can not judge anyone based on stereotypes. By taking the time to get to know someone, without expectations or assumptions, you can get to know who she is and judge her good qualities against her bad qualities and make a mature decision. But this is the same level of respect to give to anyone else. If you're not happy with this person, or this person is not happy with you... then that is ok and there is nothing wrong. One who gives advice making stereotypes either has no experience with this matter or is jaded from the past. No matter how often you are hurt, you should always give a new person a fair chance on a blank slate.
somedude81 Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 More of a tip: If it seems that a girl might like you, ask her out. There were a few girls in HS that I think might have liked me but I didn't pursue them because I was focused on somebody else.
Dust Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 I did horrible with girls in HS. I didn't really try though. I never really made any real moves. Never had a gf. Just took a girl who was a friend and I had zero attraction for too prom. Girls really like getting asked to the prom don't underestimate that. If you can't get a girl your grade level the juniors and sophmores will be dieing to get asked. They'll go with a guy they arn't even into just for the bragging rights. I mean it would be nice to have some sexy memories from highschool but things could have gone wrong too. I would tell myself to just have fun and not worry so much if a girl likes you or not. If you like a girl ask her out. If a girl likes you give a chance if she is attractive. Don't be so focused on one girl you're barely afraid to talk to. I'm 27 now and I have zero problems getting girls. The hardest part for me would be finding a girl I want to marry. Finding a girl to be your gf and have sex comes easy to me at this point in my life. Also I'm not in HS any more but you know what they say the great thing about HS girls is I get older they don't. So I could date the HS cheerleader at my age if I wanted too... She'd have to be 18 since I don't want to risk going to jail... some states allow as low as 16 though... haha Bottom line just have fun in HS. Reailize you are your own worst enemy and if you just had a good time and asked out/made moves on the girls you liked you'd do fine. It doesn't matter in the end. You're not a real person yet lol.. just kidding. You're one version of yourself now, you'll be some one else every few years. Enjoy. My 10 years out of HS is comming up, I wonder if some one will send me an invite to some kind of HS reunion on facebook...
Oxy Moronovich Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 I'm 27 now. Here's a few things I'd wish I'd known: 1. How to spot it when your significant other is seeking a new relationship with someone else. I wish I had known a woman growing physically and emotionally distant from her man and even overly-critical of her man means she is trying to get a new lover. 2. I shouldn't try so hard to impress women. I should do what I can to make women worth my time feel special. 3. I shouldn't expect my dating life to automatically improve when my financial situation does. More later.
jobaba Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 I went to two different high schools, and the second one was small. I could honestly say that if I knew everything I knew today, I still might get zilch from the girls in that school. Just not the type of guy they were looking for ... similar to USMC's comment. Also, if I were back in high school again, I'd have pursued a different life path and completely sacrificed girls and friends in high school. But, to answer the question in a practical sense, if I were to hit on girls outside of my high school or when I got to college, here's what I'd tell myself... 1) If she gives you any kind of a sign, go for it. 2) Be cocky and confident. Keep talking and avoid uncomfortable silences. 3) Wear clothes that fit! 4) Don't even bother with the petty, shallow, uppity girls. I really didn't back then much, but I would completely ignore them the second time around.
Author Necromancer Posted January 30, 2012 Author Posted January 30, 2012 Message to myself; They only like tall, white dudes. Wait til after college. I don´t live in the USA,i live in Europe...every body is white. The women here where i live are as shallow as ****,sometimes i have been amazed it´s so retarded.
insaneinthebrain Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 That they like sex as much as we do..... Sometimes more.....!
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 - Women are just as horny - Most of the stupid **** they do is because they're insecure and most will continue to be for the rest of their lives - It doesn't matter If you have any game, most are too stupid to know the difference - Don't be a nice guy (wasn't at this point but might be good for you) - Don't be such a pussy - Screw as many as you can (but don't get one pregnant) - Just because she's pretty doesn't mean she's a bitch and just because she's ugly doesn't mean she has a good heart
joystickd Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 1. What women think or say they want in a guy is usually not what attracts them to a guy. 2. Some of the women you reject in high school look horrible compared to women you meet in college. 3. There are a small amount of women that are just f**ked up and they will never have a healthy relationship no matter what. Years later they will be married and divorced at least 2+ times and spend more time single than married.
Author Necromancer Posted January 30, 2012 Author Posted January 30, 2012 - Women are just as horny - Most of the stupid **** they do is because they're insecure and most will continue to be for the rest of their lives - It doesn't matter If you have any game, most are too stupid to know the difference - Don't be a nice guy (wasn't at this point but might be good for you) - Don't be such a pussy - Screw as many as you can (but don't get one pregnant) - Just because she's pretty doesn't mean she's a bitch and just because she's ugly doesn't mean she has a good heart Haha!,i don´t get obsessed over one girl like most of the nice guys....."i am the great catch",most of them don´t got anything more than looks!. I hate stereotypes,everybody is different.
Author Necromancer Posted January 30, 2012 Author Posted January 30, 2012 1. What women think or say they want in a guy is usually not what attracts them to a guy. 2. Some of the women you reject in high school look horrible compared to women you meet in college. 3. There are a small amount of women that are just f**ked up and they will never have a healthy relationship no matter what. Years later they will be married and divorced at least 2+ times and spend more time single than married. About number 1.,that´s 100% true. I really don´t know why they say this bullshyt,i always "judge by her actions,not by her words"!. and that´s the opisite to what they say in most cases.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I would love to hear 1/2 advice from every guy here about girls.... what they wish they´d known when they where in high school!. If you're an adult male, this question is irrelevant. High school girls are much different and want/need/like VERY DIFFERENT things than adult women.
Dust Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 If you're an adult male, this question is irrelevant. High school girls are much different and want/need/like VERY DIFFERENT things than adult women. I wonder if there was a Star Gazer at my HS. Do you put on the old HS cheerleader outfit if your man asks theses days?
HughHardcastle Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I just wish I knew women when I was in high school! Being the class clown was NOT a good way to get girls.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I wonder if there was a Star Gazer at my HS. Do you put on the old HS cheerleader outfit if your man asks theses days? I tried it on the other day, actually. It didn't fit. I don't recall my waist ever being THAT tiny! Egads! But my college uniform I was able to squeeeeeze into.
phineas Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I tried it on the other day, actually. It didn't fit. I don't recall my waist ever being THAT tiny! Egads! But my college uniform I was able to squeeeeeze into. I graduated in 90. My mom actually had some of my acid wash jeans from highschool in her basement. They are too big on me & I weigh 15lbs heavier. F-YEAH! Oh and i'd love to go back & teach myself how to recognize women that respond well to men who treat them poorly. I would wind up avoiding the friendzone so much it might cause a tear in the space-time-continuum.
Author Necromancer Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 If you're an adult male, this question is irrelevant. High school girls are much different and want/need/like VERY DIFFERENT things than adult women. I am in HS and im just talking about the girls around that age(16-20),not women....sorry haha So i can learn from their experience.
Dust Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I tried it on the other day, actually. It didn't fit. I don't recall my waist ever being THAT tiny! Egads! But my college uniform I was able to squeeeeeze into. OMG what I wouldn't do to see that! I am in HS and im just talking about the girls around that age(16-20),not women....sorry haha So i can learn from their experience. Sadly you can't really learn from our experience. But if you can do anything let my experience motivate you to live life. Have fun. Don't do things just cause your scared... and more importantly don't let fear stop you from doing things. Bottom line I as my own worst enemy. I was imature and women slapped me. I also didn't try. My attempt at trying was throwing a cup of water on a girl in a white tshirt and saying "wet tshirt contest." You have to just flirt make them laugh, have fun enjoy them. Ask them out then make moves like kiss them and squeezing their butt. I was afraid to flat out flirt and ask girls out. If I ever did get alone with a girl I like I was afraid to make a move. And I also would get obsessed over 1 or 2 specific girls instead of having my eyes open to all the beauty around. In the end don't put pressure on yourself. If you don't do well with women in HS you always have college (or your college aged years if you don't go) and then you have the time after that too. Live in the here and now. Just live your life! I just wish I knew women when I was in high school! Being the class clown was NOT a good way to get girls. Oh c'mon man being the class clown is about having a good fricken time. I loved it... I was heart broken when some unfunny ass pulled togather the votes to make him official class clown in the year book!
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 I am in HS and im just talking about the girls around that age(16-20),not women....sorry haha So i can learn from their experience. In my day, we passed notes. I'm assuming that translates to texting today. Don't text the girls; go approach them and talk to them. And pick the girls you're interested in to partner with on projects. Oh, and find one really clever, unique way to ask a girl to a dance...and from that point forward, all the other gals will be swooning.
Author Necromancer Posted January 31, 2012 Author Posted January 31, 2012 In my day, we passed notes. I'm assuming that translates to texting today. Don't text the girls; go approach them and talk to them. And pick the girls you're interested in to partner with on projects. Oh, and find one really clever, unique way to ask a girl to a dance...and from that point forward, all the other gals will be swooning. Are you talking about trying to get her to dance with me just on a normal school day? that would be fun looking forward to that!
spiderowl Posted January 31, 2012 Posted January 31, 2012 In my day, we passed notes. I'm assuming that translates to texting today. Aww, that's so sweet and I'm sure that is what's happened. Gosh, I remember the days of notes. I didn't get any, but I did get the occasional boy's friend telling me his friend wanted to ask me out. I never knew whether they were telling the truth or not.
Star Gazer Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 Are you talking about trying to get her to dance with me just on a normal school day? that would be fun looking forward to that! Actually, I wasn't! I meant school dance, like prom or homecoming. By your idea sounds great too!!
Curious-One Posted February 1, 2012 Posted February 1, 2012 Dont get into long relationships (useless) instead smash as many girls as possible. Dont stress too much about stuff that happened. After HS you will maybe continue talking to 4-5 people at most.. it wont matter that a girl rejected you or dumped you.
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