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Friend "loves hanging out" then "might avoid me". What's going on?


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So me and this girl met a few months ago and we were seeing eachother briefly but decided to stay friends. We didnt see eachother for a while over xmas but we have started hanging out a lot more alone recently. We have quite a few mutual friends so see eachother that way too.

 

Today we met up with some friends and then went back to hers and hung out, watching a movie and cuddling. She said "i love hanging out with you" and i said the same. we then split up and met up later again with some friends for dinner.

 

We live near eachother and on the bus ride home we were talking about how a mutual friend of ours seems to be cold towards her. I said he doesn't really feel that way but she said she is going to start avoiding him.

 

Then she said that she might start avoiding me too! I asked why, and she kind of mumbled 'tired' and then got off the bus and left.

 

I'm confused and I feel a bit hurt. She gets mood swings and has a lot of **** in her life to deal with but i don't understand. I haven't contacted her about it cos i think it will do more harm than good. But is she having feelings for me again and wanting to not act on them? I don't know, some answers would be nice :)

 

I admit, i do like her still, but i am willing to stay friends.

 

Thank you.

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All i can say that if you think she has other problems going on in her life,wait abit and then talk to her about it, let it all be clear.tell her that you care about her.

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