simplybrill Posted June 2, 2004 Posted June 2, 2004 Ok guys and girls. I dont like the dude anymore, and I definitely dont want to get back with him - Hooray I dumped his arse, but NOW....Im dealing with this icky feeling. Oh for goodness sakes make it go away!!!! Any ideas?
BrotherD Posted June 2, 2004 Posted June 2, 2004 SimplyBrill Hmmm. Why the icky feelings? Were you s***ty to him? Is it because of your role in the relationship or his? You liked him once. What happened? Are there feelings still there even though your clear you not into it? are you sending mixed messages? What squelched the flames of love? Is it reversible? The reason I asked is I was dumped recently. My ex was sweet and passionate one day and a green eyed beast the next. Ex wouldn't tell me what was wrong "don't make me tell you the reasons I'VE rejected YOU...(that just about killed me, boy that hurt.) At any rate, the thing that stuck in my mind is WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED? We're holding hands, kissing, makin' luv, sweet talk and then "I'm not into you..." Yeesh! I've lost interest with other partners. So I understand when "the thrill is gone" It doesn't make it any easier when it happens the other way around...If I'm truly not into it though, I usually never think about them again. No guilt etc. Which leads us back to "the icky feelings." Why the ickiness if your over it? Do you just feel bad about it? At this point I don't know what you can do to alleviate your icky feeling. I do know what not to do though... Don't call him back or send mixed messages. Especially if you as "over it" as you stated earlier... Let him go. Maybe after some time has passed you can tell him "I felt bad doing that and I'm truly sorry, your a great guy" He will probabaly be more receptive then as well. For now, the best thing you can do is set him free... Cheers
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