joystickd Posted January 29, 2012 Posted January 29, 2012 If he lied just end it. He lied so he doesn't respect you and you don't trust him so you will lose respect for him. Its the best thing for both parties.
phineas Posted January 29, 2012 Posted January 29, 2012 Girl he lied because there is either more to the story or he is waiting for the chance for there to be more to the story. Blech Agree with this 110%
Appleanche Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 What do people think of this - If he is willing to meet with me, this girl and her boyfriend and we all talk about this in the open. This seems fair, no? If theres really nothing to hide they should both be willing to do this, right? This is if my ex contacts me and wants to try again, I don't know that I should contact him first. You don't need this guy. Setting up a meeting with the 2 of them won't prove anything because they will just pre-arrange what they tell you. If they want to continue their relationship, they will find a way. I've had that very thing happen to me. I was in a similar situation many years ago... my boyfriend was "talking" to this other woman and I had heard rumors that there was more going on. My boyfriend denied everything, even suggested he call her while I stood right there and listened. Their discussion seemed low-key and non-threatening enough so I felt better... until I learned later that it was all scripted. I felt like an idiot. They only told me what I wanted to hear, and that exactly what you'll get too. Don't waste any more time with this guy. He's not worth it.
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