somedude81 Posted January 29, 2012 Posted January 29, 2012 Young girls have trouble saying "no" to sex with a guy even if they don't want to. They will pretty much rape themselves rather then face disapointing a guy by saying no. This thread is more about a girl in an LTR say a few years down the line where they've become comfortable with saying no... They never seemed to have much trouble saying no to me.
Author Dust Posted January 29, 2012 Author Posted January 29, 2012 They never seemed to have much trouble saying no to me. You've never asked a girl to have sex have you? So, they can't say no if you never asked! Bottom line an older women may like sex more but that doesn't mean she'll be up for it more. I'm 27 any ways so women who have become sexualy comfortable isn't exactly my target range at this time.
Titania22 Posted January 29, 2012 Posted January 29, 2012 Women enjoying sex when older doesn't mean they have it more. A young girl looking to please her man is a powerful thing. They are just talking about when they personaly felt most comfortable being naked and having enjoyment... not necesarily when they had the most sex. I wasn't refering to when i had to most sex, but i also wasn't referring to feeling comfortable. I was referring to feeling sexual desire, wanting to have sex. And I know, a bit off topic, but somedude must be indulged Dust.
Titania22 Posted January 29, 2012 Posted January 29, 2012 Bottom line an older women may like sex more but that doesn't mean she'll be up for it more. Actually in my case it does. I would willingly have sex everyday. I wouldn't have before. And another reason I don't want to have casual sex now (as it has come up in other threads), is that having sex whets my appetite and I want more. The frustration I feel after having sex once is much stronger then not having it at all. My body can handle alot more sex now then before. So your assertion that women aren't up for more sex when they start desiring it more seems false to me.
Author Dust Posted January 29, 2012 Author Posted January 29, 2012 I wasn't refering to when i had to most sex, but i also wasn't referring to feeling comfortable. I was referring to feeling sexual desire, wanting to have sex. And I know, a bit off topic, but somedude must be indulged Dust. I wasn't saying you were. Somedude is some what simple on these matters. I was trying to explain things to him.
xxoo Posted January 29, 2012 Posted January 29, 2012 Young girls have trouble saying "no" to sex with a guy even if they don't want to. They will pretty much rape themselves rather then face disapointing a guy by saying no. This thread is more about a girl in an LTR say a few years down the line where they've become comfortable with saying no... Reading this, maybe some of the issue is lack of sexual attraction from the start? I messed around with a few guys before meeting my H and marrying young. I was crazy horny, but only 2 of the handful of guys (my H, and one other) really excited me and unleashed my desire. It didn't mean that I didn't like sex!
zengirl Posted January 30, 2012 Posted January 30, 2012 Young girls have trouble saying "no" to sex with a guy even if they don't want to. They will pretty much rape themselves rather then face disapointing a guy by saying no. This thread is more about a girl in an LTR say a few years down the line where they've become comfortable with saying no... You've never asked a girl to have sex have you? So, they can't say no if you never asked! Bottom line an older women may like sex more but that doesn't mean she'll be up for it more. I'm 27 any ways so women who have become sexualy comfortable isn't exactly my target range at this time. I think most women become sexually comfortable at some point in their 20s these days (it might've taken longer or even never happened in the days before female sexuality was something that could be spoken about openly). Their biological desire probably won't peak until their 30s, as Titania brings up, but that doesn't mean they're not 'comfortable.' Those are two different things. If you're primarily dating women who are only having sex to please the guy, yes, that will wear a woman down over time and she will begin to resent sex and have less of it. Whereas a woman who is having sex of her own accord (and many women in their 20s are doing so, though it seems this isn't what you prefer from your statements, such as preferring a woman who would want to please you and not caring whether she orgasms or not) is going to develop a healthy attitude towards sex, like it, and want more of it, especially as her hormones change and she becomes more sexual, biologically. As for women who feel uncomfortable saying no, what a sad, sad thought. I cannot remember ever feeling that way. And I like sex and have plenty of sex. But your description of what some women will do sounds so gross and sad; I'm not doubting there are women without the self-esteem and empowerment to decide when they do or don't want to have sex, but the whole problem could be solved by instead being sure you're sleeping with women who are comfortable saying no in the first place and then seeing how much sex they'd actually like to have.
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