mattymx Posted January 26, 2012 Posted January 26, 2012 Any thoughts would be appreciated. long story short! 7month relationship ended after she came back from holiday. no problems b4 think its a case of G.I.G.S(there were a lot of GIGS behaviours traits). been broke up for 5 months and the last month has been no contact! never begged/pleaded nothing needy and for the past few weeks no contact has helped(best thing i did was delete her on facebook...good tip) But from time to time i get a bit low/flat and lonely. i run fake conversation with her in my head too. I do believe in what goes around comes around and karmatic justice but still feel complete in justice from my end. I guess im looking for others who can relate and any reconciliation/found new ove stories would also be a boost
Philosoraptor Posted January 27, 2012 Posted January 27, 2012 No matter what you want to classify the end as, the fact is this person is gone and has not expressed an interest in getting back together. Was she abusive? Did she cheat? What negative karma does she have by ending the relationship? From what I've read in your posts she left, was confused and scared (as most dumpers are), and has made progress moving on.
Maoky Posted January 27, 2012 Posted January 27, 2012 It's normal to feel lonely sometimes. I mean, these people were an important part of our lives - it's important to never forget that. They help us grow as people during and even after the relationship, but like Philosoraptor said, they are gone. We take what we can from the relationship, learn what we can, and move onto better things. As long as you are honest to yourself and don't delude yourself into any false illusions of what was or could be, then it's fine to retrospect and introspect sometimes; just don't get into a habit of doing it perpetually =)
Author mattymx Posted January 27, 2012 Author Posted January 27, 2012 No seriously nothing went on in the relationship to end it. She dint want to leave me when she went on holiday, cried when i dropped her off and told all her friends that her future was with me when she came back from holiday!! but im not looking for explanation to her actions are there arent any! guess i was looking for ppl who can relate and show that their are a variety of success stories and that im not being stupid in feeling like this from time to time! although today is a much better day over all.
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