henderson14 Posted January 25, 2012 Posted January 25, 2012 So I have a unique situation that just occurred. About a year ago I went on four dates with a girl I met of online and eventually slept with her. I know she liked me but I ended it and she seemed fine with it and wanted to stay friends (we haven't had contact since). Well a year later I came across one of her friends on the same site and we are exchanging messages. I didn't know right away it was her, but now I am pretty sure. It was pure chance. Anyways, I really want to try to get to know this girl, but I'm not sure if I should mention this to her? How exactly do women feel about situations like this being in either girls shoes? Would it make her feel better about me because I'm now not a total stranger or scare her off? Thanks.
PrincessPeach Posted January 25, 2012 Posted January 25, 2012 This is definitely something I would not keep from her, as her finding out from someone other than you would be really weird for her in my opinion. Because if she brings it up and you already seem to know about it then it would seem real sketchy to her. I'd feel creeped out for sure. The next time you talk with her I'd suggest casually tell her that you've recently notice that you've dated someone you think is her friend a while ago through the same site, that you didn't realize it at first, and let her do what she would want to do about it, if anything.
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