yzyzyz325 Posted January 25, 2012 Posted January 25, 2012 (edited) Hi all, happy CNY, hehe I know many of you warned me not to give the translation to my ex as I promised before the BU, but supported me to apologize to her for my own mistakes in the relationship. Well, I did both. Two days before our best mutual friend left, I gave the socks my ex left at my place, the translation and a letter to her and asked her to give it to my ex when they met. In the letter, I firstly briefly apologized for the wrong things i did which i realized recently after something happened to me. Then i pointed out that i found out lack of communication was always the biggest problem between us and i wished her could pay attention to it in her next relationships and find the one. I also said the 42 pages translation was supposed to be one of the things that i wanted to give to her in the end of last April (our 1.5 yr anniversary), and i just wanted to keep my promise. At last, i wished her happiness and good luck. That's it. According to our best mutual friend, when she gave the bag with those things in to my ex, she (my ex) was so shocked that she just put it aside without even checking what's inside, and suddenly stopped talking and just kept silent. The whole situation was so embarrassing that the friend had to restart chat by talking about some random things. Her reaction is beyond my expectation, even though i always know that she doesn't like showing her emotions or sharing her feelings, and is very self-protective (that's why i said the biggest problem was always lack of communication). Anyways, by doing so, I felt less guilty for my mistakes, I kept my promise to her, and more importantly, i think i showed that i've moved on. i feel quite relieved now since i have tried my best to make amends. it's a nice closure to me Edited January 25, 2012 by yzyzyz325
Philosoraptor Posted January 25, 2012 Posted January 25, 2012 Well it's done. Don't let either sending it nor what your ex's reaction may have been set you back whatsoever. Keep your focus where it needs to be.
Author yzyzyz325 Posted January 29, 2012 Author Posted January 29, 2012 Well it's done. Don't let either sending it nor what your ex's reaction may have been set you back whatsoever. Keep your focus where it needs to be. Thx Philosoraptor, I've tried not to thk abt her reaction, but it's hard. Normal ppl would not react like that
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