According to Loveshack people, it is justified for Average guys to give up dream

[quietGuy13]

Whenever i see average guys, most times i see them with average or below average girls. Seems they just settle.

 

Whenever i see playboy typie athletic/bodybuilder/hip hop/cool/type guys, i see them with hot girls. ANd picking them up easily.

 

Of course, the reason it works out like this is part the female's fault. Most Sexy girls who would be consider dream girls to most guys, like the ALpha types...so guys know this and they feel like crap.

 

Just like i do.

 

ANyways, so it kind of makes sense that average guys shouldn't even try since 99.9999% of girls he likes will never like him back.

 

That's the truth.

Currently i have a few online girls that like me but they're all average. I tried getting cute/hot/sexy girls but just nobody wants me.

[CobaltBlue]

Actually you really need to reframe your efforts. If you consider that the reason you aren't getting to date the girls that you want is because you are average then you're in luck...

 

• Improve yourself so that you are no longer average. Figure out the areas you come up short and improve those areas.
  
• Don't blame the girls. It weakens you and gives a random girl power over you that she truly doesn't have
  
• Take responsibility for yourself, its much more empowering and will improve your dating and other parts of your life
  

[Mme. Chaucer]

Maybe your number one dream should be finding out how to have a job, move out of your parents house and take good care of yourself.

[kaylan]

OP, dude....you gotta stop fixating on this...why create another thread on this topic when theres a long thread about it already on the first page of the forum?

[Anela]

Only wanting them for their outer appearance, isn't love or real appreciation of the people that they are.

Do you actually like them when you talk to them? Or do you just see the gleaming trophy?

 

the men they're involved with may also see the trophy - I won't discount that. But what happens if you do land the hot girl? Would you always love them, even if they put on weight due to illness, or comfort eating (amongst other things?). What about when they eventually start to get lines on their faces, their hair starts to turn grey, and they develop more cellulite? they're *real people*, not Barbie dolls.

[Anela]

Also, who is to say that those "average" men settled? And if they *are* average, then why wouldn't an average woman be good enough for them? Why do they deserve so much better than what they apparently are themselves?

[Cracker Jack]

This seems to be a variation of the last topic you've made, so I'm not sure what answer you're looking for with this one. You're more focused on finding a hottie than a good woman--and really, that's your problem, not an average guy problem.

[ditzchic]

If finding a ridiculously hot good catch is really your dream then yes, you absolutely should give it up. Because until you do some serious work on this crazy fixation of yours, it's never gonna happen for you.

[ascendotum]

wtf you already got a blockbuster thread going on this very topic. Didn't you like any of the answers there?

Average guy with average girl is not settling. Its called being a realist. Its kind of like a law of nature. How does 100% of guys (goober to average to hot) end up with the 40% (though 49% > avg) of women that are above average. These 40% of women will need to do the rounds to bring joy to all the guys.

[RecordProducer]

Whenever i see average guys, most times i see them with average or below average girls. Seems they just settle.

 

Whenever i see playboy typie athletic/bodybuilder/hip hop/cool/type guys, i see them with hot girls. ANd picking them up easily.

Of course, to you a "below average" girl means not hot, even though she may be a super-smart, cool, funny, cheerful, generous, and altogether wonderful person.

 

Of course, the reason it works out like this is part the female's fault. Most Sexy girls who would be consider dream girls to most guys, like the ALpha types...so guys know this and they feel like crap.

The female's fault???? Sorry, it's not my fault that I don't like unattractive guys. Is it your fault that you don't like unattractive girls? I understand that people date people from outside their leagues in many aspects, but what makes you feel entitled to date Jessica Alba while you're no Ashton Kutcher?

 

Currently i have a few online girls that like me but they're all average. I tried getting cute/hot/sexy girls but just nobody wants me.

That's exactly how the hot women who rejected you feel: I have guys I don't like hitting on me and none of the guys I like. It's a two-way street, you have to stop looking for hot girls. There's plenty of cute no-to-hot girls out there. From what I understand you're also not offering anything else that a hot woman (say, a gold digger) would like.

[Titania22]

 

But what happens if you do land the hot girl? Would you always love them, even if they put on weight due to illness, or comfort eating (amongst other things?). What about when they eventually start to get lines on their faces, their hair starts to turn grey, and they develop more cellulite? they're *real people*, not Barbie dolls.

 

I just wanted to repost this for emphasis.

[SteveC80]

Feel for you buddy, youre gonna have to put up with bs from women regardlesa of what she looks like so she might as well be pleasant to look at if u have to deal with bs

 

Keep pluggoign away sometimes its easier to get a good looking girl then a average girl with an inflated ego

[johan]

Why would an average guy dream in the first place? Seems like asking for trouble.

 

I think most LS people just want the best for average guys. The pain of unfulfillable dreams doesn't do anyone any good.

[somedude81]

This seems to be a variation of the last topic you've made, so I'm not sure what answer you're looking for with this one. You're more focused on finding a hottie than a good woman--and really, that's your problem, not an average guy problem.

Variation?

 

It's the exact same topic.

 

I already reported it. This should be locked.

[Imajerk17]

QuietGuy , time for the unvarnished truth. You're the Forum Creepster. You weird people out on here. You need to do some SERIOUS work on yourself before you can get ANY woman intetestef in you beyond pity.

[Eddie Edirol]

Its only justified for lazy quitters and downers to give up on their dreams. Average guys that try and arent fixated on their flaws will get the woman of their dreams. without being complete creeps either.

[Titania22]

Variation?

 

 

Too funny.

[Dust]

Never give up your goals, and always enjoy your dreams. No matter what any one says. Just be sure to really ask yourself what you really want. You may find you've grown up a little and have new dreams and goals.

 

Too funny.

 

What about me am I funny? Do you get wet when you laugh at my posts?

[RecordProducer]

QG, have you seen/are you seeing a counselor? Also, your username is "quiet guy," perhaps you should learn to be more outgoing.

 

QuietGuy , time for the unvarnished truth. You're the Forum Creepster. You weird people out on here. You need to do some SERIOUS work on yourself before you can get ANY woman intetestef in you beyond pity.

 

Its only justified for lazy quitters and downers to give up on their dreams.

I think it's completely justified to stop believing in Santa Claus at age 30.

 

Average guys that try and arent fixated on their flaws will get the woman of their dreams. without being complete creeps either.

That's quite different from a "hot woman." When your dream is Angelina Jolie, you better be Brad Pitt.

Just be sure to really ask yourself what you really want.

I think that's the only thing that QG doesn't have a problem with. The problem is he can't get what he wants. Right now? No freakin' chance! If he takes action to implement some major changes in his life, then maybe. I cheer for QG and I know he can do it!

 

I already reported it. This should be locked.

Don't you have better things to do in life than report this thread for being repetitive? QG needs help and his posts are legit. If you don't appreciate his threads, you don't have to click on them. I think he is benefiting from discussing his issues with us. Edited January 25, 2012 by RecordProducer

[quietGuy13]

This is not the same as the other thread. This says that LoveShack people think it's justified. The other thread doesn't say that.

 

well maybe i should've chosen a different name for the question but im stupid.

 

This is why i think many Loveshack people think i'm stupid: Because most Loveshack people have game , and probably have love experience and friends and are social kind of people. So nobody understand me.

[Dust]

Can you please make a youtube video of yourself singing I dream a dream from les miserable...

[Sanman]

This thread is just ridiculous. If you want gorgeous women all over you, go get sex-pack abs and a six figure job. If you don't have the motivation for such things, settle for the women that do not want those things. You are like the guy at work who doesn't have the education credentials, sucks at the job, and wonders why he never gets a promotion. Some people would rather be bitter than put in the work to fulfill their dreams.

[oaks]

I tried getting cute/hot/sexy girls but just nobody wants me.

 

Ok, so you're clearly unattractive to those cute/hot/sexy girls. Your repeated threads on this topic demonstrate this.

 

What are you doing to improve your attractiveness?

[Ross MwcFan]

I think a lot of those average guys wouldn't have settled, and they genuinley would've been physically attracted to their average girl.

 

I'm very attracted to a lot of average and below average looking girls.