krz12 Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 Background on me. I'm 25, and I haven't dated much. I think I've been on maybe 8 or so first dates, and a handful of 2nd/3rd dates, but not much past that. Anyway, went on another 1st date this Saturday. It was decent I guess as far as a 1st date is concerned. I told her I would call her in a couple days, kicked her a brief 'thank you text' when I got home, and went to bed. Yesterday was football day, so I put her out of my mind a bit. She texts me out of the blue, I respond, and she proceeds to sent over about 20 texts over the next 6 hours. Today I got another 10 or so texts sporadically through the day. Mostly 'how was your day' kind of thing. I've been responding to these texts thus far, but right now I am quite confused. What's going on? Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 She's letting her texts do the talking. By making her presence known, she's hoping you make a second date with her. Honestly men! When you say you'll call, please do it, and not just saying it out of politeness. Link to post Share on other sites
thatone Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 yeah, pretty much. follow up, ask her out again. she'll say yes. be more assertive/aggressive with this one, she wants you to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Lilmisus Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 Am I the only one that finds it odd that you're considered about why she's randomly texting you out of interest? It'd be odd if she wasn't texting you in all honesty. If you don't like it though, don't respond, and tell her you'll call her when you get a chance. But...take some initiative and start the next conversation tomorrow, and follow that up with asking if you can call her sometime that day and ask her out for a second date. She's interested, and you should take the bait while you can if you're interested in her as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 She's just obviously into you and desires a response and attention from you so she's making sure to stay on your mind. She had a good time on the date and basically is pretty interested in you. However do watch out If she's someone very clingy or insecure as some women attach easily to men...not any, but it doesn't take much because what they're looking for is someone to reciprocate those emotions back to them more than how compatible you are, and what the relationship would be like, you know...rational things. It's up to you whether you want to speed up the process or just keep things at an even pace. Personally I always maintain a certain speed that I function best in, but then again people call me pretty selfish as times as I kinda do what's good for me and what's good for them is secondary. Just try and remain respectful, if she's on your nuts too much tell her to calm it down..well in so many words, however If you want to dive in and go crazy with her this is definitely a good sign that you can do that. I can't spell it out any easier than that for you. Link to post Share on other sites
colliejoanie Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 If you're responding to her texts favorably, she's going to keep texting you. She obviously likes you. If you like her, awesome!! But if she's texted you multiple times and you haven't responded or haven't responded favorably.....RUN! Clinger stage 5. Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 Sounds like she's rushing things way too much. 20 texts in 6 hours after just one date? Seems kind of obsessive to me. Link to post Share on other sites
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