Med Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 What is a 180 & the laws of attractions spoken in these forums about? Any links for any info for them? I'm going through a divorce at the moment. Thanks. Sorry didn't know which forum to post this on!
KathyM Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 I'm still relatively new to this forum, but I think what people are referring to by the 180 is that when a person's relationship breaks up, and you want to win that person back, instead of begging, pleading, and making a play for reconciliation, you turn away from that person and show no interest in them or getting back together with them. You move on with your life, which will have the effect of the other person realizing that you don't need them or want them, and that makes you more attractive to them, the laws of attraction being that you want most what you can't have. That's my interpretation of those concepts. I would certainly agree that showing desperation and trying to hold onto a relationship that has ended can have the opposite effect of what you want and will push a person farther away. But I don't believe a total 180 with NC is the way to go if you really do want that person back in your life. Limited contact and redeveloping the attraction is what has the best chance of working to rekindle a relationship where the other person has left you.
dreamingoftigers Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 180 is from Divorce Busting Easy to google. They have it on the marriage builder's website forum. And yes, it is effective.
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