Ninjainpajamas Posted January 26, 2012 Posted January 26, 2012 but, i want to be with this guy; how do i make him see that we're potentially perfect for one each other?! i know he fancies me, he likes me... he must, and last night he sent me a message full of kisses saying he was looking forward to talking to me today tips please You might as well be asking me how you can live on the moon and how to get there Jean. It doesn't work that way, you CAN'T make a guy see you're a perfect potential partner. Him telling you he's not over his ex is his way of saying "I'm not ever going to be in love with you" People just don't move on like that when they have these kinds of emotions and with you in his eyes he's not going to "see the light" and be like "Oh wow look how amazing this girl is I'm using for comfort and sex, I think I'll fall in love with her now!" It doesn't work that way, you're fulfilling a need for him (you're a substitute for the loss of his ex-gf) you're not her and he has to constantly remind himself of that when he actually sees you and isn't able to just move those emotions onto you (because you're not her and never will be) and you're in this to win it but you aren't wise enough to realize you already lost and you're fight is a losing battle. However I know you're not going to listen to me so just find out the hard way, just have those Adele songs lined up for your impending doom. Hopefully you'll learn a lesson from this, but probably not, you have that "female persistence" tenacity thing going on where you don't want to lose.
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