patagonia Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 (edited) I just told the girl I was talking to something that really bothered me that she said months ago. She proceeded to get very upset and angry that I didn't tell her before hand, that I wasn't honest that it hurt my feelings, that I was a doormat and that I was afraid to rock the boat. All I didn't want to do was bring up something that I didn't feel like made much difference or that wouldn't matter too much. It became my fault for feeling like this and not telling her what I really felt and that it wouldn't have worked because I wasn't being open with my feelings. She went on to say a lot of things which made me feel wonderful...not really. So I'm wrong here? If I am, I take the blame but I didn't know that by not rocking the boat, I was really, rocking the boat. Would this anger and frustrate you if you were her? Thoughts? Thanks! Edited January 22, 2012 by patagonia
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