irc333 Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 I get a kick out of women these days, esp. the younger crowd. I heard these 2 women, late 20's talking incessantly about men who have been "stalking" them. Turns out, it wasn't any real genuine stalker, just some guy they think is following them around online or by other means. I heard the beginning of the conversation about how a guy at work, that no longer works there anymore, who had access to her cell phone for work purposes...well, he's not working there, so calls her up for a date. And this one girl claims this one guy keeps following her around on FB....and I joked, "Hey, that's the beauty of the internet, people keeping tabs on people 24/7! LOL" Anyhow, I left to go mingle around, came back about 10 mins later in the area, and as I passed them, they were STILL talking about specific guys that had been "stalking" them.....as they put it. ONe woman was on a topic of how a guy contacted her mom so he could get a hold of her living somewhere else. Rule of thumb ladies, and men who over hear these whiney women talking about "stalkers", if it's a high number of men that's "stalking" them, it's not real stalking whatsoever, they're just bragging or just gabbing about someone that's pestering them. They even were joking about how they gave out wrong #'s to men I had to leave the room they were pissing me off. lol They had a flare for the dramatic that's for sure. Makes me wonder how many women actually had to reject men in such a short amount of time.
Titania22 Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-erm4XzgCNI I'm glad to see someone with fantastic taste in television. Good one jobaba. Coupling is a classic.
Dust Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Women are very afraid of men. Very funny really. Not my problem. Real stalkers exist, but not at the level women talk about them.
Author irc333 Posted January 22, 2012 Author Posted January 22, 2012 Women are very afraid of men. Very funny really. Not my problem. Real stalkers exist, but not at the level women talk about them. Yeah, I heard of probably 2 genuine sounding accounts of stalking from female friends, that were actually....well....stalking. One woman told me she had a guy friends she knew well that broke into her apt and was waiting for...he didn't attack her or anything like that, just freaked her out big time. He had this pattern of behavior of actually PHYSICALLY going everywhere she goes.
Star Gazer Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Stalking is a pretty loaded word. Having walked into my bedroom to find a dude sniffing my underwear drawer, I know what it really means. He also put acid in my face wash. Good times.
Titania22 Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Stalking is a pretty loaded word. Having walked into my bedroom to find a dude sniffing my underwear drawer, I know what it really means. He also put acid in my face wash. Good times. Ewww StarGazer. I know what you mean, after hearing my girlfriend tell me her stories a couple years back, everything experience i ever had with men (including the ex husband) seems mild by comparison.
Dust Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Stalking is a pretty loaded word. Having walked into my bedroom to find a dude sniffing my underwear drawer, I know what it really means. He also put acid in my face wash. Good times. Acid face wash and yet you're so pretty. Not a bag over the face kind of girl at all. I watched this documentary about a stalker who paid people to splash acid on a girls face who dumped him because he was married. Her face got all melted around the eyes. she went blind. When the guy got out of jail she had never married. The man she had been engaged to dumped her after the face acid incident and she had been a spinster. She ended up marrying the guy who had stalked her and paid to have acid splashed on her face. True story.
Star Gazer Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Acid face wash and yet you're so pretty. Not a bag over the face kind of girl at all. It burned my cheek a little bit, but it was like a glycolic peel that you get during some facials... took about a week to heal. He admitted to my face that he did it, and how he went about putting it in the bottle. That day, I started looking for a new place to live. (He was my roommate.) I came home early a week later when I thought he wasn't there to pack some stuff to go stay with my then-BF for a couple weeks until my new place was ready, and that's when I found him sniffing my underwear. There's more to this story, but I won't bother you with it.
Dust Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 It burned my cheek a little bit, but it was like a glycolic peel that you get during some facials... took about a week to heal. He admitted to my face that he did it, and how he went about putting it in the bottle. That day, I started looking for a new place to live. (He was my roommate.) I came home early a week later when I thought he wasn't there to pack some stuff to go stay with my then-BF for a couple weeks until my new place was ready, and that's when I found him sniffing my underwear. There's more to this story, but I won't bother you with it. This is a really great story. I think its right on topic too so please continue. Just for the record I don't know if I could resist sniffing your panties if I lived with you. Maybe rubbing my head against your toilet seat too! But the acid face wash thing... He's lucky I wasn't your then bf I would have killed him.
Star Gazer Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 This is a really great story. I think its right on topic too so please continue. I think you're familiar with LA, right? I lived with a Real Worlder across from The Grove. When she moved out, I had to quickly find a replacement. This was the guy. He seemed a little too interested in my life and what I was up to. "Where are you going? Where have you been?" At one point, he said that I was rude for not including him in my social life - he said as his roommate it was rude and inconsiderate of me to not be hanging out with him outside the apartment and whatnot. Truth be told, he just wasn't my type of person all around. He's a bit of a recluse, very introverted, into animation and screaming death metal and "dark" stuff and just...awkward. He rode his bike to work...in Burbank. One day, he complained to me about not finding any girls to date. I asked him what kinds of girls he likes. He said girls who liked the same things he does: animation and metal music. I suggested he hang out at the Roxy, or the Viper Room, or the Whiskey (bars/clubs where his taste in music is played live, with lots of "hot" chicks as diehard fans), and see what gals go there and approach them. He asked me if I ever went to those bars/clubs. I said I only went to Viper when my friend's band was playing there, because otherwise, it just wasn't my scene/type of music. He then asked me what kind of guy I liked to date. So I rattled off: college educated, funny/good sense of humor, outgoing, attractive. He immediately laid into me, calling me all sorts of horrible names for wanting to date someone who's college educated (he was not). He said something like, "WTF c**t, you think you're too good to date ME just because I didn't go to college F**K YOU, you whore!!!" I was like, "Woah dude, don't take it personally! I'm not saying whether or not I'd date YOU (that discussion wasn't on the table), I'm just telling you what MY type is just as you're telling me what YOUR type is. I thought we were just having a little get-to-know-you-here." He stormed off. Next day was the face wash incident.
Dust Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Look at that you gave him some good advice, and were honest with him about how you saw him and he acted like a dick. Yes he's very lucky a guy like me wasn't your bf... then again a guy like me would have wanted to kill him just for being your room mate. I'm a very jealouse man.
kaylan Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Wow stargazer. If I was your boyfriend I would have made sure charges were pressed after I kicked his ass. What a loser of a roommate. I hope that dude never gets laid. Freaking scum.
Oxy Moronovich Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 True. Alotta women like to overreact and say a guy is stalking them when he's really just walking in the same direction she is.
gaius Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 It's just a way of bragging about how desirable you are. The other day I was forced to endure a guy who sounded like Kermit the frog talk about how his crazy ex girlfriend wouldn't stay away from him. You get used to the BS after a while. Wow Star, glad that guy was an incompetent chemist.
grkBoy Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 Women use the term "stalking" now to mean any guy who is after her romantically, but she's not attracted to him. It's like how they use "married" to describe a long term relationship...one that did not actually get married.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 22, 2012 Posted January 22, 2012 I get a kick out of women these days, esp. the younger crowd. I heard these 2 women, late 20's talking incessantly about men who have been "stalking" them. Turns out, it wasn't any real genuine stalker, just some guy they think is following them around online or by other means. I heard the beginning of the conversation about how a guy at work, that no longer works there anymore, who had access to her cell phone for work purposes...well, he's not working there, so calls her up for a date. And this one girl claims this one guy keeps following her around on FB....and I joked, "Hey, that's the beauty of the internet, people keeping tabs on people 24/7! LOL" Anyhow, I left to go mingle around, came back about 10 mins later in the area, and as I passed them, they were STILL talking about specific guys that had been "stalking" them.....as they put it. ONe woman was on a topic of how a guy contacted her mom so he could get a hold of her living somewhere else. Rule of thumb ladies, and men who over hear these whiney women talking about "stalkers", if it's a high number of men that's "stalking" them, it's not real stalking whatsoever, they're just bragging or just gabbing about someone that's pestering them. They even were joking about how they gave out wrong #'s to men I had to leave the room they were pissing me off. lol They had a flare for the dramatic that's for sure. Makes me wonder how many women actually had to reject men in such a short amount of time. Yeah, such people are absurd, and are effectively doing the 2012 equivalent to screaming "Fire!!!!" in a movie theater. Even the (seeming) guru to young and trendy women, . Human nature has simply changed with social media, and in order to immerse yourself as completely into it as you desire, you simply have to expose yourself considerably in terms of information. Women forget that men sorta get-off on details and data, and once that is provided by, and about (millions) of women everywhere, some males don't need anything beyond that in terms of actually 'meeting' someone... A random man, who you don't know from Adam, sifting through your self-provided information, is NOT "stalking" you. If by contrast he is sifting through your underwear drawer, or your private online bank account data, then you have a case. Until that point, quit yelling "Fire!!!!" in the movie theater.
Shaun-Dro Posted January 23, 2012 Posted January 23, 2012 Women are very afraid of men. Very funny really. Not my problem. Real stalkers exist, but not at the level women talk about them. Yes, ladies. We just want some loving from you so stop the holding out and let us men enjoy your soft bodies.
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